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He might be repulsed by something that you don’t even notice.
By Mehruba Chowdhury — Written on Dec 14, 2018
Ever wonder what turns people off?
We all have pet peeves. I personally do not like close-minded people. Something about their intolerance totally turns me off!
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Similarly, he might be turned off by certain traits or habits based on your zodiac. You might not even know that they turn him off! But loved ones, who know you so well, might be able to confirm that you do indeed run for the hills when someone exhibits these horoscope personality traits.
Sometimes, it’s not even a trait, but an action that makes a guy cringe and look for the nearest exit. For example, Sagittarians cannot stand fake people! And Pisces souls loathe cruel actions.
Knowing how his zodiac sign reacts to certain traits or actions is helpful if you want to get to know yourself better. It might make you question yourself as to why you don't like that unique behavior. In doing that, you might be able to unearth something deeper about the way you are wired.
It’s also helpful if you want to figure out what turns your friend or significant other off, according to their zodiac sign.
So that, you know, you try not to do that thing! For example, Libras don't like loud and crude people. Don't show them this side of yours, if you don't want them to disappear from your life for good!
Sometimes it's just sheer curiosity. You just want to know what EXACTLY turns these zodiac signs off. So, I am here to tell you exactly what turns him off, according to your zodiac sign, per astrology.
1. ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
As an Aries, you live for passion and adventures, which is why you hate a lack of spontaneity. You want people to be excited about the things they do and be ready to go on adventures with you when you ask them to.
Also, you are very active. So laziness and inactivity in others totally turn you off!
Conversely, as a male Aries, what will turn him off is your lack of planning. He may want to just lounge after a long work day instead of trying to figure out what you'd like to do next. In the end, this could be what he finds unattractive in you even if at first he liked it.
2. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
You love security and routines make you feel energized! That is why instability in others annoys you a lot. This also means that you hate sudden changes, spendthrifts, and people who always show up late!
In general, chaos in your surroundings turns you off. So, when you are applying your makeup or putting on different outfits for the evening, it could get his feathers a bit ruffled at the mess that's made at the end of the night.
As a male Taurus who loves beauty, he may love the finished product, but his neatness might feel challenged at the end of it all. This could be why he says you are perfect with no make up on. He doesn't want to have to deal with the aftermath in the bathroom.
3. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
You are one of the best communicators of the zodiac. So naturally, you don't jam well with the ones with poor communications skills. You especially hate people who cut you off mid-sentence and those who don't pay attention to what you say. They make you feel as if you have nothing valuable to say. And that is a sure way to turn you off!
As a male Gemini, he may love that you are that way on a superficial level, yet there are times when small talk is fun and silence is golden. So, when you are talking away, say at 3 am, he may want to go to sleep, and this could be an unattractive trait in his eyes, long term.
4. CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are sensitive and slightly insecure. So anyone who is loud, insensitive, or rude would not be able to pacify you, my crab! Also, you especially hate those who insult you. So they better watch out!
However, he may have a sarcastic humor. So, when he makes cute little names for you to show how much he loves you and all your flaws, you could take it to mean that he literally is poking fun at them. This could be an area where tension becomes unattractive or him, as a guy Cancer, in the long run.
5. LEO (July 23 - August 22)
You love being the center of attention! So, my dear lion, you hate the peasants who dare to steal your spotlight. Unsurprisingly, you also love fashion, and so people who don't dress very well make you cringe!
You also love adulation, and that usually means that anyone who criticizes you should watch out.
He may feel threatened when you steal the show with all your good looks and amazing outfit. As a guy Leo, he will both love and hate that you do, and so this could be a mixed back of attractive vs unattractive, that turns him both on and off at the same time.
6. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
You are usually very shy and reserved- you don't like drawing too much attention to yourself. This also means that you don't particularly like people who are attention-seeking. In fact, attention-seekers might lead you to think that they lack in manners. Speaking of, you hate rude people.
Your perfectionist nature also makes you dislike careless and irresponsible people. There are times when you do have to be rude, and he wants you to know that being over polite isn't all that it's cracked up to be.
For example, as a male Virgo, he will want to make sure you are taken care of. So, if someone isn't treating you the way he thinks that you should be when you're out on a date, his nitpicky side can come across as rude, and so when you get upset at him for it... it's a turn off.
7. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libras usually have good taste and thrive in relationships that are based on equality. As a result, people who dress hideously in your view would definitely raise your eyebrows in horror! You also don't like people who try to take advantage of you.
But male Libras often take the hit when people use them for one reason or another. Their ability to be the nice guy has no end. So, when he is trying to be there for a friend either by providing a listening and compassionate ear and you complain about it, he may find that truly a turn off.
8. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
As a Scorpio, your greatest fear of betrayal haunts you in relationships. That is why people who lie to you or hide things from you really make you angry. You are also a very deep person, so superficiality in others turns you off.
It is also said that most of you are vengeful. Whether it's true or not, people should refrain from slighting you. Because you don't forget very easily.
The one thing a Scorpio male can do is dish it out, and when he receives the same back, he won't like it. He will respect you, but he won't find it attractive. This side of you both is like a two edged sword where his double standards show up.
9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
You are one of the most honest signs of the zodiac! So, naturally, you hate dishonesty in others. Your sign also rules religion, higher knowledge, and beliefs. So people who unnecessarily question your beliefs or ridicule them are the people you definitely don't like!
However, as a Sagittarius male he loves to explore the meaning of life and he may not even realize that this can be something of a sensitive nature to you. When he probes for answers and you find it too much, he may feel turned off because he thinks of your convictions as closed mindedness.
10. CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
People who don't follow rules and regulations frustrate you. You are also very traditional and people who are too modern in their lifestyle or attitude could make you feel anxious. You also don't like compulsive shoppers since you work so hard to earn your money!
Capricorn men don't mind lavishing you with gifts, but they also like to spend. So, when you decide to make a decision without him, he may feel left out. He might want to chip in and save you money, even if he knows your a savvy shopper. He may want to take the lead in finances, and when he can't, it can be a turn off.
11. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
You are very progressive in your thoughts, and so, close-minded people turn you off the most! You also value people because of their individuality and quickly lose respect for those who follow the herd.
Your humanitarian nature also makes you dislike those who only care about themselves. The same can go for a male Aquarius. He may think when you are doing too much self care work that you are losing sight of the big picture.
He may not understand that a little vanity isn't a bad thing. You're happy to give to others but you also want to enjoy giving to yourself. For him, this could create tension and confusion which equals a turn off.
12. PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, you guys are naturally magnanimous. A sure way to turn you off, therefore, is by leaving meager tips for the waitress in your presence!
You are very spiritual, so people who are too materialistic make you unhappy. Also, any kind of cruelty to the underprivileged makes you sick to your stomach.
When a male Pisces says that he doesn't want you to be so emotionally and it hurts your feelings, it can make him feel as though he can't express himself the way that he wants. At the end, he will understand, but in the moment, it can turn him off for a little while.
Mehruba Chowdhury is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.