10 Tips To Massage A Man Until He's Yours — Physically AND Mentally

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There's nothing ladies love more than a massage. But guess what? So do our male counterparts. They like a nice rub down as well and there's nothing that gets someone quite in the mood like a massage

So if you're crushing, dating, or married to a man that you need to be utterly completely yours, here's how to give him a great massage. You'll want to use these until he's completely entranced with your loveliness.

1. Treat him like a king.

"Well, for me it would start as a true massage — maybe not some 50-minute thing but a little caring for my body. Some kissing, caressing and then maybe after a few minutes, she makes me flip over. Not necessarily going right for the gold, but not taking too long either."

In other words, create a little anticipation and don't treat him like he just showed up to the spa. Treat him like you're his little love slave.

2. Caress his entire body.

"She starts out caressing me and helping my aching muscles, then she finds her way to my nether region with a steady progression towards the hand act itself. Oils would be good in this situation. Some kissing there would be nice too."

Are you surprised? Understanding how to give him a great massage means recognizing that you should be touching all of him, especially his penis. And really, kissing? We understand the translation.

3. Keep the lights low.

Soft lights were the unanimous requirement to making sure you're giving him an intense and memorable massage that has him moaning your name.

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4. Wear a small amount of clothing.

Some men want you to wear is rather simple: "Nothing. Or maybe just a tank top and panties." A simple request, right?

5. Put on some lingerie.

For other men who want a little more "lace" with his massage, he suggests you wear something sexier. This way you'll look pretty and the material will feel just as nice on your skin.

"A small silk robe and lingerie or just panties and the robe."

6. Work his muscles.

He actually wants you to knead his sore body. This means digging into those tense neck and shoulders and working the muscle knots in his back. Make sure your hands are warm and ready, too.

"The beginning of the massage should be quite deep, like a regular massage."

7. Don't forget to use oil.

You can't simply massage with your bare hands. Apparently, that won't do at all because when you've got oil, the fun takes off. Just start out slowly.

"Start with just a little oil as you're beginning to massage just like any other body massage, and then add more oil so it gets really slippery and feels a little more sexual." 

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8. Tease his penis.

Of course, there's another vote for some hand play: "The perfect massage is when I begin on my stomach, but she occasionally reaches under and rubs lightly around my penis."

Is it getting hot in here?

9. Use a variety of techniques.

Now, of course, he wants you to get your body into it and change positions a bit.

"After massaging me for awhile, I want her to turn me over to straddle me, rubbing my chest and then penis."

It always goes back to his "piece," of course.

10. Pay attention to the ambiance.

You know your man's tastes. While one man might want soft music, the other may want something edgier. So it all depends on his taste.