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It's time to get what you want.
By Kelcey Connors — Written on Sep 08, 2017
Exes can be horrible, especially if they’re the one who broke up with you, but that doesn't mean that you still don't want them back. If you look to astrology, it can be easier to figure out exactly what your zodiac sign needs to do to win your guy back after a breakup — no matter how bad the breakup may have been.
You guys had a great relationship, you shared a lot of amazing memories and moments together. You may have even thought at one point that they were the one you would end up with for the rest of your life.
You worked so well together. Each family approved of each other, you got along with each other's friends, you just meshed so well together and that doesn't even begin to cover how well the two of you worked in the bedroom.
And then the breakup happened. If they broke up with you, you probably spent a decent amount of time crying and resenting them.
If you broke up with them, you still might have spent some time crying, depending on the circumstance.
But you don’t always get over your ex so easily. Sometimes you don't get over them at all.
Whenever you see them, your heart still flutters. You try to pretend everything is back to normal, or that they don’t play a role in your life at all. Hopefully you’re a good actress, because if you’re not this could be an awkward and super uncomfortable situation.
All hope is not lost though, especially if they haven’t completely moved on yet. If you want something, go after it!
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You want your ex back? That’s normal. But the question is, can you get back with an ex? Should you get back with your ex?
If you want to get back with him, then yes, you should. And well, you got him once so who’s to say you can’t get him again? There is no shame in changing your mind or working to make him change his.
Get to it girl, pull out that outfit that makes you feel hotter than hot. Do everything you know is going to drive him crazy. Soon enough he’ll be the one thinking back on all the memories you’ve shared and wanting it all back.
There was, and is, something about you that drives him crazy, and chances are it's linked to your zodiac sign! So it's time to really play to those strengths. Astrology has gifted everyone with the tools to get what they want, in this case something you already had. So get out there, don't waste any more time. This is how to win your ex back based on your zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21- April 19)
He was originally attracted to you by your competitiveness and your success. You always came out on top and he was constantly impressed, so were his friends when he would brag about you.
Maybe your breakup came at a time when you were going through a little bit of a slump. He didn’t realize it was only a temporary setback in your life and you just needed some time to get back on track. Instead he broke up with you which sent you into an even deeper slump.
Get back on your game, girl!
Get back on top and do things he can’t help but notice and be impressed by. He’ll want you back in a heartbeat, and it will be up to you whether to take him back or leave him behind.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus knows there's nothing that catches the eye like an expensive sports car or a piece of jewelry. That means it’s time for a makeover.
Nothing drastic, but at the same time if you’re feeling a haircut or a dye job, don’t hold back! And when you know you’re going to be seeing him there’s is no shame in wearing the outfit he used to love seeing you in, or spending a little more time on your makeup.
You’re going to make sure you catch his eye, and he’ll be all over you all night.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
He was originally attracted to you because you were the life of the party, and that hasn't changed about you. If you’re out in the same group as him, there is no way he will be able to ignore you or the feelings for you that start to creep back as he watches you shine among everyone else.
So if you want to win him back, just be your normal self. Almost everyone who breaks up with Gemini realizes the mistake they’ve made.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
You’re super in touch with your emotions and everyone loves and respects that about you. If you want your ex back consider telling them that, flat out.
You will be surprised at how much they respect you for coming to them and they will acknowledge how brave you are for doing it. And it will get them thinking about how much they’ve missed you too.
It’s worth a shot.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
When it comes down to it, you’re extremely difficult to resist. Just make yourself noticeable. While you may have been avoiding bars that you know he’ll be at, make your return to them. Flirt a bit in front of him, show him you’re doing fine.
Even make the move to go over and say hi to him, He will be dying to have you back when he sees how well you’re doing.
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
You have always paid attention to little details and can use this to your advantage now! Take notice to how he’s acting around you.
Does he seem to be enjoying the single life? If not, it’s going to be a piece of cake getting him back. You won’t have to work too hard.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
You're super social and you see your ex out everywhere. On top of that, make yourself unavoidable.
Don't be onto of him, but make it so he just see’s you everywhere he looks. And when he sees you, you will be enjoying yourself without him and he wont be able to stand it.
READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
You really don't have to do much to get your ex back because he’s been miserable ever since he broke up with you. His life has been dull and boring without your adventurous self, and he just doesn't even want to leave his house half of the time.
So just give it some time, he is about to reach out to you real soon.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
You do anything to achieve your goals and this is no exception. You’re going to pull out all the stops in your attempts to get your ex back.
You’re going to show that you’re available, but that you have options and are living your best single life.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
You don't actually want your ex back. He broke up with you and had no idea what he was losing in doing so. You don’t have the time to think about wanting him back, you cried but now you have moved on to bigger and better things.
Even if he comes crawling back to you, chances are you wont be interested in giving him the time of day.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
You’re a natural problem solver and you wont have to think or work to hard to solve this particular problem.
If you want your ex back, just tell him. The truth is, he may have broken up with you but he’s actually not over you at all.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
You’re super in tune with your emotions and the emotions of others. You can probably tell if and when your ex wants you back. Call it a hunch but you’re usually right about these things.
So when you get the feeling that he’s missing you, and you’re missing him, reach out! It really is as simple as that.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)