15 Signs A Guy Just Wants Sex (And Nothing Else)

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15 Signs A Guy Just Wants Sex (And Nothing Else)

By the time most girls reach high school, they are aware that guys are horny. In fact, guys seem to be at their horniest then. They will say and do anything possible to get laid, and unfortunately, most guys never fully get out of high school in that way. They still will do whatever they can to get some booty, and that includes lying about their intentions.

One of the problems that women often face is that guys who are older are slicker about their attempts at getting sex than they used to be. What may seem like a perfect gentleman will just never call again once he gets laid. Sound familiar?

If you want to avoid this from happening, make sure to watch out for the following signs a guy just wants sex and doesn't want a relationship with you at all.

1. He really doesn’t ask questions about you.

Guys who want to get laid don’t really want to know you as a person. They really just want to ask superficial questions and cut to the chase. So, if you notice they are asking “bare minimum” questions, he probably just wants to get laid.

2. You get a feeling he’s already taken.

Is he married? Did you overhear rumors that he’s dating someone else? When guys cheat, they aren’t looking for a new wife or Ms. Right. Rather, they’re looking for sex.

3. He cancels whenever you ask him to hang out with friends.

If he only wants to hang out with you solo, you have to assume that he’s only trying to have sex with you. Guys who want a relationship often will want to meet your friends because they want to get a better idea of who you really are with.

4. You met him on Tinder.

Yes, everyone knows that some random couple met and married off Tinder, but really, it’s an app made for sex. Don’t kid yourself. He’s probably the rule, not the exception.

5. He doesn’t want to spend too much money on you.

I understand that dating is expensive, but there’s something to be said about a guy who won’t even buy you a damn drink. Aside from it being stingy, it also is a sign that he really doesn’t want to invest in you. That’s not a good look if you’re trying to get into a relationship.

6. Even when you told him he’s not getting laid that night, he broaches the subject again or gets overly grabby.

Yeah, this is a sign that he doesn’t understand boundaries and that he probably shouldn’t get another date. It’s often best to just tell them that you feel like they don’t take you seriously as a relationship partner, and that you’re not willing to date someone like that.

7. When you broach the subject of a relationship, he tries to sweep it under the rug.

Any time a guy tries to avoid the relationship talk, it’s almost certain that they don’t want a relationship with you. If he regularly refuses to answer this question straightforward or if he seems to just answer in a way meant to placate you, he’s in it for sex.

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8. He only calls you at night.

Some guys really aren’t good at hiding their intentions. Generally speaking, if he only calls you at night, he’s probably just looking for nookie. A guy who’s interested in more will make a point to talk to you throughout the day.

9. You regularly feel like he’s pressuring you to have sex or that he will leave if you don’t put out.

If a guy has to pressure you or act like he’s owed sex, then he’s definitely just looking to get laid. Guys who are respectful won’t do this to you, and no one has time for that kind of BS.

10. Something in your gut tells you he doesn’t respect you.

When a guy likes a girl but doesn’t respect her, he will have sex with her but won’t commit to her. That’s just what guys do. Besides, respect is crucial to a healthy relationship. If you don’t get the feeling he respects you, it's one of the signs a guy just wants sex and you really shouldn’t agree to see him anymore.

11. He’s straight up told you that he’s “not looking for anything serious.”

When a man says this, for the love of all that is holy, believe him. Don’t stick around waiting for him to see the light because he won’t. He’s already made up his mind and that’s him telling you it’s not going to happen.

12. As soon as sex happens, he leaves.

Guys who want more tend to hang around longer than guys who are just looking to get laid. They also are more likely to want to hang out with you without sex being on the table.

13. If you say something really strange or messed up, he doesn’t seem to care.

Around the time I realized everyone in my college hated me, I started to play a game where I’d try to come up with the most outlandish things I could say to a guy, then say them with a straight face. This led me to realize that guys who are just looking for sex tend to be willing to agree with anything as long as it leads them to the bedroom.

14. He reeks of douchebag culture.

You know how there’s a whole culture of guys who basically look a certain way so that they can get laid by girls? They dress the same, tend to wear the same cologne, often will flash cash or flaunt a certain kind of car according to their region... Yeah, avoid them.

15. He brags to you about sex.

This is the big one. Guys who are looking to get laid who will brag to you about how they bed other women will never be respectful enough or good enough for a relationship. They just won’t. So, if you hear this one, tell him to get laid by other women because you’re not biting.