14 Types Of Wiiiiild Sex Everyone Should Have At Least Once Before You Die

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Twice if it feels right.

Aside from making sure all parties involved are legal and consenting, there’s really no “wrong” or “right” way to have sex. That said, for those of us who enjoy tasting every flavor and using every crayon in the box, experiencing a variety of sexual encounters is an important part of expressing our sexual desires.

Whether you consider yourself a sexual connoisseur or a casual recreationist, this sexy Bucket List includes “must try” events everyone should have at least once, twice if it feels right. Here are 14 types of sex everyone should have in their lifetime.

1. Vacation Sex

Science has spoken: Sex is better on vacation. Whether it’s from the new environment, the day drinking, or just the general freedom from responsibility, people tend to open right up to some great bedroom recreation when they’re away from home.

2. Regrettable Sex

We need to get past this idea that bad sexual choices somehow deplete our personal worth; it’s garbage thinking that we don’t have time for. Alright, obviously, I don’t want anyone to put her or himself in a dangerous situation or destroy anyone’s life for the sake of a naked-time story, but everyone should have at least one sexual experience they cringe about when they remember it.

Whether it’s banging a coworker, an ex you swore off, or some stranger in a nightclub bathroom, as long as you use protection and stay safe, you’re allowed to get out there and make a mistake or two!

3. All-the-Bells-and-Whistles Sex

Not everyone is comfortable with sex toys right off the bat, and while it’s understandable to be wary of introducing inorganic tools into your bed at first, keep in mind that real adventure happens outside your comfort zone. Don’t feel like you need to strap one on and dive into the deep end at first, though! Give yourself a little time to find something new and novel that actually appeals to you.

4. Sex With a Partner Who Isn’t Your “Type”

Nothing blows your perceptions out of the water than letting someone you’d ordinarily pass on change your preconceived notions of what they’re like in the sack. It’s the most fun way to be proven wrong!

5. Sex on Camera

The culture around sex tapes has changed dramatically since the advent of smartphones; however, DIY porn is an art form that has been around for decades. The fear of being hacked or exposed is deep enough to stop most of us from wanting to hit “record” on our sex sessions, but even if you just film a solo session, it’s a whole new world once you’ve seen what your “O-face” looks like. Start slow, film just yourself on an unhackable device and see where it takes you.

6. Sex With Someone Older/Younger Than You

First of all, KEEP IT LEGAL. That said, to turn up your nose at sex with someone outside your age bracket is to seriously miss out on a great encounter. Pro tip: While the inclination is always to shoot for someone younger than yourself, the best partners are those with a lot more practice under their belts.  

7. Role-Play Sex

Sometimes, being a fake bitch is a ton of fun. Exploring new personality types or entire social paradigms lets you tap into facets of yourself and your partner you’ve gotten used to keeping under wraps. Letting out your inner alter-ego is a liberation unlike any other that can set fire to your life both in and out of the sack.

8. Rough Sex

For a lot of people, even administering a simple spank is scary and with good reason; sexual violence is something to be taken very, very seriously. However, if you’re with a partner you completely trust, letting your animalistic urges out to play is by far one of the best ways to crank up the volume on your sex lives.

Start with the basics: Hair-pulling, back scratching, and spanking are gateway tools for a fun roughhousing that will leave you both sweaty, panting, and totally wild.

9. Tantric Sex

It may seem tedious to anyone who’s used to the wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am race to the finish line a lot of us tend to get used to, but taking the time to learn Tantric basics and really connect with your partner elevates the experience in ways that will have you singing its praises. Pro tip: Take your time to research the practices and slowly integrate them into your usual lovemaking over a span of time before trying an all-nighter marathon session.

10. Outdoor Sex

You haven’t tasted freedom until you’ve felt the sun and wind on your bare skin while in the throes of lovemaking. Whether you’re on a beach, in a mountain forest, or just in your own backyard an outdoor romp has way more pros than cons.

11. Wreck-The-House Sex

Few things are as passionate as feeling so powerless against your carnal urges that you destroy a bedroom with your lovemaking. Don’t know where to start? Try that thing they do in the movies where you swipe everything off a desk or tabletop to make room for immediate boning. Then let the mood take you on a tour of the premises. 

12. Everything-But-Sex, Sex

If your sex life has progressed past parking in a vacant lot to make out with your high school boyfriend, this may seem regressive, but I promise you, dialing it back and teasing yourselves with foreplay only is SUPER hot, especially if you’ve been together for awhile.

13. Public Sex

You don’t have to do it on a stage in front of a crowd (unless that’s your thing, then by all means!), but stealing away to a ladies’ room or a quiet corner is a thrill nobody should miss.

14. Crazy-In-Love Sex

Sure, one-night-stands have their own perks, but nothing feels so all-encompassingly satisfying as sex with someone you’re madly in love with. From the visceral to the tangible, it’s the type of sex that stimulates all the senses and stays with you forever.