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Before he puts a ring on it, consider both the good and bad aspects of marrying him.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Oct 06, 2016
No matter how old and/or wise I get, I still need as much help in making decisions as anybody. Maybe because I'm a Libra and it takes me forever to decide on something, simply because I have to weigh all the evidence and get as much advice as possible.
I think all of us can use whatever kind of extra information we can get, especially when it comes to those major life decisions such as moving somewhere for a job, getting cosmetic surgery, or getting married.
We don't want to make a mistake, and yet mistakes are how we learn and grow. But no one says to themselves, "I'm going to do this even though I know it's a huge mistake, and I'm going to suffer the consequences."
There are times when we just need to act, to trust that whatever happens will be a learning experience, and we'll become better people because of it... or at least get some funny stories out it.
No matter how confident we are in our decision-making prowess, we still seek help from various avenues. You might have a friend that you trust or a therapist, or like many of us, you get various behavioral clues from astrology.
Marriage is not something that someone goes into lightly, nor is making a long-term commitment, so when we're deciding whether or not we should make such a momentous decision, we need to look at all the costs and benefits. We may we completely head over heels in love, but we've got to try to see things in a logical and practical way.
Astrology helps us get a clearer picture of the character of our intended. It can tell us what's good about marrying him and what's bad. You can get an idea if the bad things are dealbreakers, and that you should wait until you know the person better before agreeing to spend the rest of your life with them.
Here are both the good and bad things about marrying him, based on his zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Good: Aries don't do boring, and a life with them is an adventure. They're fun-loving, a little wild, and charismatic. A life with an Aries will challenge and delight you. The chemistry between the two of you will be more than physical, but emotional too, and will probably last a lifetime.
Bad: Aries men can be a little too comfortable with taking risks, which translates into bad decision-making. They also can be a bit selfish, bossy, and are known to be particularly hard on themselves while shutting their loved ones out.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Good: If you want a stable home with all the good things life has to offer, then Mr. Taurus is your man. He's loyal, hardworking, and just a great guy.
Bad: Everybody knows how stubborn and unmovable a Taurus can be. They're relentless when they're trying to prove a point, and compromise isn't a concept they understand very well.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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Good: Geminis are smart and excel at communicating, so you'll be able to talk things out whenever there's a problem. Plus, he'll keep you entertained and enthralled, which is especially great when it's just the two of you.
Bad: Sometimes Geminis can have a problem committing. They want to settle down with one person, they really do, but something about it seems to go against their nature. Also, that talking thing? Yeah, it's great most of the time, but there are times when you wish they'd shut it for a few minutes.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Good: Cancer men are very nurturing, supportive, and understand exactly what you need when you've had a bad day. He's very affectionate, and will give you back rubs and foot massages whenever you need them.
Bad: You better love his mother, because Cancers are very, very close to their mothers. In fact, they want you to be just like their mother, which can be a problem if you're nothing like her.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Good: Leos are very generous, loving, and faithful. Like the lion, Leos mate for life. When you're in a relationship with a Leo, you feel very lucky, as if the sun is smiling down upon you, as he's simply spectacular and a real catch.
Bad: If your Leo man isn't the center of attention 24/7 he'll get very upset. He doesn't mind competing for things as long as he ultimately wins. Leo's worst quality, however, is his vanity and how completely into himself he can get.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Good: Virgos are good at almost everything as they're meticulous, reliable, practical, diligent, and extremely intelligent. They're clean, well-groomed, and will make sure everything is running smoothly.
Bad: Virgos are very critical with themselves and with others. He has a tendency to be a bit OCD about having things in their place and organized, and Lord help you if you don't put something back exactly where it was.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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Good: Libra men love people and are very social creatures. They're fair and the last thing they'd do is pick a fight for no good reason. If a Libra gets into it with someone it's usually because there's been some kind of heinous injustice. The chances are good that you'd have a peaceful and happy life together.
Bad: Yep, Libras love people which is why they're notorious players. Even if they're not cheating on you, the possibility that they'll leave you on your own at a social event is strong.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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Good: Scorpios aren't just passionate, they're intensely loyal and will love you with every single cell of their being. They're extremely sexual and will keep you satisfied.
Bad: They're very mysterious which can be obnoxious when you just want a simple answer. They can get jealous, possessive, and if they catch you in a lie, they'll hold it against you and never forgive you.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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Good: Sagittarius men are smart, funny, philosophical, and love to travel. Marrying a Sagittarius would open you up to the world.
Bad: Yes, they know a lot, but living with a know-it-all can be taxing. They detest losing an argument, so you'd have to be OK with that. Then there's the fact that they get bored easily, and you'll have to work extra hard to keep them entertained and interested or they'll leave you for a new person.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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Good: Capricorn men make ideal husbands as their strongest qualities are hardworking, dependable, and financially responsible. That's what you want in a spouse.
Bad: While being such good workers is a positive thing, they have a tendency to work too much. He can also be both stubborn and emotionally detached.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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Good: Aquarius aren't just accepting of other people's differences, they delight in them. They're very young at heart and are always up for a good time.
Bad: They're easy-going until they're not, and sometimes they're contrary just to stir things up. They have a tendency to be closed off where emotions are concerned and if they don't want to take care of a problem, they just won't deal with it. They won't do anything they don't want to do, even if it will come back to bite them in the ass.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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Good: Pisces know how to break the tension of a serious situation with a laugh. They're very original thinkers so you'd never be bored, and they'll always be there to listen to your problems and offer you support.
Bad: You never know what you're going to get because they can go from hot to cold instantaneously. They can become so tight-lipped that it's impossible to find out when something is bothering them. And they spend so much time in their head, you might wonder if they've purchased real estate there.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One