It's time to spice up your life in the BEST of ways.
By Emily Ratay — Written on Aug 17, 2016
There comes a time in everyone's life when they want to spice up their sex life. Whether that means trying a new position in bed or introducing a toy, there's something exhilarating about getting out of your comfort zone and trying something completely different than what you're used to.
If you have a supportive partner, then you know there's nothing to be embarrassed about if your attempts at something new doesn't go as planned.
Sure, sometimes you forget where the keys to your fuzzy handcuffs went and maybe shower sex would have been better if you hadn't tried to hold onto the water for support, but experimenting is all about making learning what works best for you, right?
If you feel like your relationship could use a little oomph in the bedroom, experimenting is probably the next natural step. If you don't at least try to do something new in bed every once in a while, you'll be stuck in a routine that'll make you both shudder when you think about having sex... And NO ONE wants that.
That's why it is a great idea to experiment by having sex in new places, not just new positions. And when I say new places, I don't mean that you have to get frisky in public (especially if that isn't your idea of fun). Just getting it on somewhere other than your bed can be exciting enough, including (but not limited to) the kitchen, the stairs, or on the floor.
We suggest talking about it with your partner first so you're both on the same page, but once the game plan is set, anything goes.
When you really want to get the adrenaline rushing, try out some of our favorite places we've listed below. Making sex in public a spontaneous decision will make it all the more thrilling, too!
ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
Aries is very courageous and determined, so nothing is off-limits when it comes to sex. They love taking leadership roles, which is why being the dominant one in the bedroom is so appealing to them.
Aries loves a physical challenge, so consider having sex in a dressing room. Not only will he be up for the challenge of not getting caught, but he will also love the idea of getting physical in such a small place without much to hold onto. Just make sure you DON'T get caught.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)
TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)
Taurus adores touching and being touched. They put sensual foreplay right up at the top of their list of things they love. They can be very romantic when the mood strikes, making sex with Taurus mind-blowing.
Taurus loves the good things in life and will indulge often on material pleasures. Combining sex with pleasure is a no-brainer for him, so drive to a romantic spot and get that car of his all steamy inside.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini is always ready for a little fun and loves expressing himself in new ways. Being so adaptable means that Gemini can get comfortable in any situation (or position).
Gemini doesn't like to feel confined, so the bigger the space, the better. Check into a hotel for the weekend, open all the windows, and have at it. Not only will the two of you have a great view, but everyone else will too.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer is highly imaginative, which means anything goes in the bedroom (or out of it). They are also very emotional, which brings out their romantic side perfectly.
Cancer finds water very relaxing, so get busy in your own pool or hot tub, if you have one (maybe you can even find a use for those pool noodles). If you don't have access to a private pool, try the bathtub or shower (which is equally as sexy, albeit a bit more complicated — position-wise).
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)
LEO (July 23 - Aug 22)
Leo is a creative and passionate lover, so even when you're having sex in bed it's exciting. They're also difficult to say no to, so if you haven't already tried something adventurous with them in bed, now is your chance.
Being both a dramatic person AND having an interest in theater, the most obvious choice for a Leo is sex in a movie theater. Low lighting, velvet seats, and an empty theater = major fun for the both of you. Just be careful you don't do it around people. You don't want an arrest record on your hands.
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)
VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sep 22)
Virgo is always remembering the small details in life, including in their relationships. They love making their partner happy and will even make sex something intimate and special.
Virgo is a big lover of nature, so find a secluded part of the park at night to get dirty. Virgo is also a bit of a romantic, so the soft grass and vast night sky is the perfect setting.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (Sept 23 - Oct 22)
Libra is a social creature and loves being around people. They are also very gentle and peaceful individuals, which means finding a place to have sex that is both comfortable and relaxing is very important.
As a lover of the outdoors, Libra should have sex on the beach. Not only is it relaxing and peaceful, but it can also be very secluded, if you pick the perfect spot.
READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)
SCORPIO (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
Scorpio is all about passion and experience. They are always looking for new experiences in life and having an exciting sex life is part of that.
Scorpio is very brave and chances are he'll try anything at least once. If the two of you want to try a new place to have sex, he'll want to go all out. We suggest joining the Mile High Club and getting it on in a plane; it's adventurous and brave, just like a Scorpio.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 19)
Sagittarius is an energetic and extroverted person, so they're always up for trying something new. Don't be afraid to suggest something off-the-wall for you two to try in bed; he'll love the idea!
Sagittarius is a very curious person, so you KNOW they've already thought about what it would be like to have sex in the office. Going to work in your office is exactly what your boss meant when he said you needed to be more productive during the day.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
CAPRICORN (Dec 20 - Jan 19)
Capricorn may be responsible and serious in their everyday life, but in the bedroom they can surprise you with what they'll want to try. They're also very disciplined, so expect him to take a dominant role often during sex.
Chances are pretty high that you were the good kid in school that all the parents told THEIR kids to be more like. So what better way to dirty up that image than to have sex in an empty classroom? How's that for having school spirit? Be ULTRA careful with this one.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
Aquarius is very progressive when it comes to sex, so it's probable that they've already been to a few of these places. They aren't shy in the bedroom and will want to get creative with their partner often.
Aquarius isn't afraid to get dirty (in both senses of the word), so having sex in a public restroom is a good choice for them. It's the perfect place for someone as original as them.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
Pisces is the whole package: emotional, romantic, and artistic. They are always up for a challenge in bed, as long as it's still intimate.
Because Pisces is a very gentle and sensual person, getting it on at the library is the perfect spot for them. It's quiet and romantic, while still adding the extra challenge of not getting caught by anyone.
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