3 Deep Penetration Positions For Intense Orgasms

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Deep penetration positions. Some women adore the way it feels and need deeper penetration during sex to have intense orgasms, while some absolutely hate it.

I'm going to teach you exactly how to have intense orgasms by using three deep penetration positions during sex.

Before I get to the actual "how to have deep penetrative sex" part, we need to cover some important basics to make sure you fully understand why it can be super pleasurable and give women intense orgasms, but also why deep penetration can sometimes be horrible — and even painful — for women.

Before you try these positions, make sure you are safe and don't cause yourself or your partner any physical pain.

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Towards the back or your vagina is your "deep spot" known as the anterior fornix, sometimes referred to as the "A-spot." It's located right above your cervix.

Having your "A-spot" stimulated by is obviously super-pleasurable during deep penetration sex, but if the man doesn't quite do it right, then he is going to accidentally hit your cervix.

This can be incredibly painful and stop sex right in its tracks. This is probably the most important thing to be aware of during deep penetrative sex.

When you or the man change the angle of entry of his then you are going to change the amount of pressure he is putting on your cervix and deep spot, so you need to be aware and careful that while trying new positions you do things safely and comfortably.

Remember that communication is crucial when it comes to having good deep penetration sex.

It may sound obvious, but it's true! Especially if you want sex with deeper penetration to be pleasurable.

You're going to need to do a fair bit of experimentation so that you can both figure out which angles work best ... and which he absolutely needs to avoid when going deep inside you.

Finally, when having deep penetration sex, make sure that you are lubricated enough so that he slides in and out easily. Remember to always use water-based lubricants if you are using latex condoms, since oil-based lubricants degrade rubber and can cause your condom to tear.

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Now that we've reviewed all the precautions, let's discuss some of my favorite deep penetration positions that can give you intense orgasms.

The key with each of these sex positions is making sure that you start nice and slow so that you can let him know when he's hitting that perfect spot — and when he's hurting you. Not keeping him in the loop will make this all a lot less pleasurable for both of you.

Here are the three best deep penetration sex positions to try that will give you intense orgasms:

1. 'The Jockey' position.

This deep penetrating position involves lying on your belly with him straddling you from behind.

The jockey position is great if you like deep penetrative sex while not being required to do a whole lot.

How To Do It: To get set up in the jockey position, you are going to need to lie down on your stomach with your legs straight and together. The man will then straddle you from behind while on his knees and enter you. He can adjust the angle of entry by where he puts his knees. He can even change the angle of entry entirely by lying down on top of you.

You can also change the angle at which he enters you, by pushing your butt in the air or bringing it closer to the bed.

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2. 'The Turtle' position.

This deep penetrating position involves lying face-down with your knees under your belly as he enters from behind.

The Turtle is great if you like deep penetration and the man is not the longest guy in the world. The man can then enter you from behind with ease and grab your waist with his hands to pull himself in deeper than usual.

How To Do It: To get into the turtle position, you need to get on your hands and knees. Next, you need to bend your knees and bring yourself closer to the bed, then wrap your arms behind your knees and try to pull your whole body in as close as possible to your legs (it's almost like you are trying to make yourself into a little ball).

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3. 'The Anvil' position.

This deep penetrating position involves lying on your back with your legs in the air as he enters facing toward you.

The anvil is the only mildly difficult position to perform if you enjoy deep penetration. If you are not very flexible, then this position is going to hurt your legs a little bit.

How To Do It: You'll start off by lying on your back and raising your legs in the air. The man will then enter you while on his knees and will lean right over you, pushing your legs right back allowing him to go much deeper inside you.

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While these three sex positions will give you a great start in learning how to have enjoyable deep penetration it's important to experiment and improvise with them to find exactly what you enjoy the most.

Deep penetration during intercourse isn't for everybody, as everyone is built differently.

Some women can have a very small or unresponsive deep spot. Some women simply prefer G-spot stimulation, which doesn't require a long penis. And some women prefer clitoral stimulation. However, most prefer a combination of all three.

The key is finding out what you and your partner enjoy the most.

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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life. If you enjoyed learning these sex positions for deep penetration and want to know how to give a guy incredible oral check out his video tutorial.