How To Give Him The Best Sex Of His Life (Without Actually Having Sex)

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If you want to seduce your man, enchant him with your sexuality, learn how to be good in bed, and just downright give him the best sex he's ever had, you need have two very important character traits: a silly spirit and a crude mind.

My man and I have an amazing sex life, but I would be lying to you if I said that my magic spell over him was cast under the sheets. The way that I have made him a self-proclaimed addict who is hooked on our physical intimacy has everything to do with how I enchant him outside the bedroom.

Teasing him is my favorite pastime. I do it even when I’m not aware that I’m doing it. In public, in private, over the phone or in person. It has become something that he expects from me. But it is also something that he claims makes our physical intimacy truly special to him.

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So how do I do it?

Well, first, I don't inhibit myself. I don't judge my inner seductress. I don't act prude and bashful when I'm wanting my man inside me and loving me right. So, if you are timid about teasing your man and are skittish about being a bad girl, but yet really want to be his minx, stop listening to the voices in your head that are restricting your body and mind from letting go.

Here are a few ways I tease my man. I act like a silly little girl with a very dirty, adult mind and a body for sin. And I do it at the most unassuming, innocent moments:

  • He’ll come to the edge of the bed to talk to me about our day’s plans while I’m still in bed, and I’ll just rub his penis with my foot and smirk at him.
  • Every time I ascend the stairs, I’ll get down on all fours and shake my bum in the air, or I’ll hump the banister.
  • I’ll stand up while we are watching television together, take off my panties and just hand them to him without saying a word, my eyes on the TV the whole time.
  • I’ll sit on the kitchen counter while he’s cooking and ask him if he’d like to eat something before dinner.
  • I'll text him this: "Mister, when you get home, I've decided I'm gonna put my hand down my panties and smear my good stuff all over your five o'clock shadow. Hehe..."
  • I’ll lift my skirt while I’m driving and snap a shot of my panties peeking out from between my legs and text it to him.

I don’t tease him like it’s some heavy smothering seduction. I tease him it like I’m some brat who likes to be a pain in the tush, only to usually end up with my own pain in the tush. I tease him from a light-hearted, young place inside me that just wants to make my man laugh and shower me with cocked eyebrows and filthy smirks.

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And by not taking myself seriously when I seduce, I don’t have to feel nervous that I’m not sexy. If I stumble over the carpet, goof up, fart by mistake while my butt is in the air, or even end up realizing I have a hunk of spinach between my gums, I can laugh at myself.

And he can laugh at me! There’s never that awkward, shameful moment of some serious-minded seduction gone wrong. (Actually, I usually get him more aroused when I mess up a seduction; our mutual laughter at my expense makes him feel very close to me.)

So, next time you are with your man, do something unexpected to throw him off and turn him on. Start randomly fondling your breasts while he’s talking to you in the bathroom, or lean over him when he’s driving and breathe warm air on the crotch of his pants. He may look at you a bit startled or like he’s uncomfortable, but even if you think he doesn’t like the attention, I promise you that he definitely does.

Look, there are only so many sex positions and women essentially have the same body parts, so if you want to be the best lover of this poor bastard's entire life, it starts with how you mentally and emotionally seduce, not just the quality of your "sack performance."

When you can bring some sass and naughtiness to the ordinary, day-to-day mix, things will never get boring. Not to mention that he will never be able to walk up a flight of stairs again without you and your derriere on his mind.

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If you’re truly serious about how to seduce your man and hand him over a platter of the best sex he's ever known, check out my list of 101 Ways to Seduce Your Man. Or take a look at my e-book Red Rose Woman: The Enchantress Inside You.