Top Or Bottom? The 1 Thing You Haven't Tried In The Bedroom

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BDSM can be fun for dominant AND submissive women. Learn how!

BDSM can be described as a type of sex where partners make use of restraints—handcuffs, ropes, tied scarves—and punishment using whips, paddles, even chains (and so on) during intercourse. The erotic practice of BDSM also involves things as such as role playing, dominance and submission.

People who practice this in their relationships definitely find it exciting and fun, and say that it can help a person focus on senses to the sexual act in itself. It is mostly predicated on mutual consent, trust and having fun. Both dominant and submissive women can have loads of fun in this lifestyle, as you will discover below.

For the dominant woman in these types of relationships, they get to enjoy an active role either in the session, or even in the entire relationship, as being on top. This usually involves the infliction of bondage, pain, subjugation and degradation. There are a few times when they do not get to act on what they want, but actually fulfill the needs of the person at the bottom—also known as the "submissive one." However, most of the time they get to come up with the rules and have power on how the entire session will roll out. They can only stop if both partners have agreed on a "safe word."

By getting to be in command, the dominant woman in these kinds of relationships also gets to fulfill her innermost desires, leaving them sexually satisfied and very happy. This is mostly determined by the personality of a person, as there are some ladies who only like to be on top of things. Thus, it plays really well when it comes to BDSM bedroom affairs. Read more about The Joys Of BDSM...

For the submissive ladies in these kinds of relationships, they also get to enjoy and fulfill their kinky sexual desires by being the person at the bottom. These are generally people who like to please people and be obedient, but also get happiness from pleasing other individuals. In addition to this, the submissive women also enjoy the type of discipline that is brought about by this kind of sexual act. They greatly enjoy erotic humiliation and are more than willing to submit to the person who wants to have their way with them.

However, not all the submissive women in these relationships are meek and willing to take everything that comes to them when they are lying down. This is because there are some who derive joy from trying to incur punishments from the dominant partner by misbehaving or even provoking them.

The scenario where a person is in more control brings out some level of excitement that both partners thoroughly enjoy. The submissive ladies also make the dominant person feel like they are gods or goddesses by handing over their sexual expression to them. They give them the power to make sure that they also feel good in the process, so that everyone is highly satisfied at the end of the day. In closing, a good way to start into the BDSM lifestyle is to brief yourself on erotic BDSM stories.

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