Dating/Being Single Support

Years in Practice

10 years +


Ventura CA 93001 - United States


MCC, Other

Additional Expertise

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I Believe

"When love isn't in our lives it is on the way. When you know that a special guest is arriving at 5 o'clock do you spend the day messing up the home. Of course not. We prepare. And that is what we should do for love."

-Marrianne Williamson

About Kat Knecht

Hello! I’m Kat Knecht. For many years now I have broadcast my message about real romance over the airwaves, in print, and in interactive presentations all over the country because I believe that real romance is something attainable. I also believe real romance is something worth having and working for, which is why I created my life changing program “The Art and Science of Romance”, which has helped hundreds of women find the real romantic life they desire.

I wrote my first book for newly-engaged and newlywed couples entitled It’s Not Just Your Wedding, It’s Your Life, which explores starting married life with a good foundation that will ensure the trust, love and excitement at the heart of a real romantic relationship is present not only at the wedding but for the duration of the marriage. Knowing what is most important to the individuals and who they want to become as a couple is essential to sustainable romance. I am also the creator of the Staying Engaged Cards, a relationship card game that sparks conversations and helps people make deeper connections in a way that is both fun and informative. Believe it or not, knowing what is in a persons heart and what they yearn for on a soul level is…. romantic!

In my column “Will This Relationship Recover?” in Life & Style Magazine, I discussed what gets in the way of real romance and the tools that help people change destructive patterns. I have presented along side many relationship experts including such notables as Harville Hendrix, the highly acclaimed author of Getting The Love You Want and John Grey, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

Though I have learned a great deal in my training as a relationship coach, my greatest learning and the most useful relationship tools I have created, have come from my own personal experience. When my first marriage ended many years ago, I examined what had caused it to fail and where I had gone wrong. I saw that among other things, I had sold out on my true desires and lost myself somewhere along the way. Personally and professionally I made it my mission to uncover and put into practice exactly what it takes to be fulfilled as a woman in a good romantic relationship. I can honestly say, I have accomplished this beyond what even I thought was possible. I am now ecstatically happy in my marriage and am dedicated to helping others create their very own happily-ever-after.

Along with my incredible husband Curtis, who is also a therapist and relationship coach, we co-founded The Relationship Coaching Connection in 2003, where we help people create a fulfilling life and confidently navigate the territory of romance for the rest of their lives. We know first hand the importance of bringing clear intentions, a solid foundation, and a sense of humor to any relationship – and staying engaged all the way!

My life’s work has been to deliver positive and productive private and group coaching programs, workshops and retreats to benefit all kinds of relationships. I facilitate Relationship Alchemy Coaching Circles weekly, which help women to not only find the love of their lives, or improve the relationship they already have, but to learn how to practice self- love and use their own personal power in a positive way.

I want everyone who desires to have their own real romance to manifest that into their lives and know how to keep it. If you are willing to do the personal growth work necessary to have the benefits my program and circles offer, I invite you to contact me for a FREE assessment today. To join our newsletter or to schedule a private consultation with me CLICK HERE and we will look at your own personal quest and what it will take for you to have exactly what you want in the area of real romance NOW.

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Kat Knecht Success Stories

Loving Guidance


"Kat has been my Coach for about 3 years. I reached out to her as I knew, just knew in my heart I wanted a great relationship, a fabulous business and a wonderful life.more

Over the past few years Kat has guided me, taught me, supported me ( and many others ) into becoming more fulfilled and happier in my life.

I highly recommend her and her loving work if you are looking to create something in your life and in your heart you just know a little help will make all the difference.....

So my thanks go to you, my fantastic community, and to Kat and Curtis Knecht of the Relationship Coaching Company!" -KN

Powerful Work

Dating couples

"I want to let you know how powerful our work together was the other day. You are truly a gifted coach and this IS your specialty, no doubt about it. Your willingness to be expert and tell me what was going on was so important, along with everthing else. Thank you." - SL

Finding Strength

Dating couples

“Kat has a special talent for really seeing people and helping to draw out their talents and strengths. She has inspired me to lead my best life and has helped me to create a vision for my future that really speaks to my romantic desires, values, goals, and honors my truest self. She is truly a gifted and amazing relationship coach. I am so thankful she has touched my life.” -KL

Healing Heartbreak

Separated couples

“Kat has helped me through a heartbreaking breakup with a man I was so in love with. She has given me new tools to evaluate what I really want in a relationship as well as what I want in my own life. She has led me to the truth about myself. She is an inspiration and an extremely intuitive relationship coach. In our discussions, her observations of me are spot on. I truly appreciate her "Coaching" ability. I thank God for her and her talent.” -LW

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