Love, Self

3 Ways To Give Off Good Vibes & Become Radiantly Happy (So Men Will Notice)

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It is a given fact that men are attracted to happy women. It’s refreshing for a man — especially for alpha men (the ones we are so head-over-heels with) — to be around an upbeat and positive lady who gives off good vibes.

Plus, you want to be happy for your own well-being, too.

Men can easily pick up on the vibes you're giving out. They naturally gravitate toward positive, upbeat women. Conversely, men tend to pull away when you’re always wallowing in sinking feelings.

It boils down to this: Happy women naturally attract men, and sad woman naturally repel them.

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A lot of women think smiling and laughing are signs of happiness in a man's eyes. The truth is though, these actions are not enough to give off a positive impression. In fact, it's totally possible to have a calm face, but still exude an aura of happiness. Even a blank face can have an underlying emotion of joy.

A truly happy woman is one that exudes positive vibes that come from within herself. So how can you become so radiantly happy that even a man notices your inner glow and optimism?

Here are 3 ways to become a woman that truly radiates happiness from the inside out — that will help you attract men, too:

1. A happy woman is light-hearted.

She is optimistic, soft in nature, calm and collected. This is the contrast of a ball-busting woman who always seems to be wearing a full battle gear and is ready for war.

A positive woman isn’t easily irritated or triggered by events, surroundings or people. She views life and the world through a positive lens that makes her see everything in a beautiful and optimistic perspective. She avoids negativity and doesn't make close-minded remarks or judgments — about herself, her man or others.

2. She has a compassionate heart.

A happy woman is someone who is devoid of judgment. She has learned to accept herself fully and thus, is accepting of others.

She always comes at life from a place of compassion and understanding and accepts her man fully — warts and all. She doesn’t point finger at him and say things like,  “You should be more like this..." or "I wish you would change this..."

A truly happy woman is the person with the least number of “shoulds” because she gracefully accepts her man as he is and is pleased with what he can offer her and their relationship — otherwise, she wouldn't choose to be with him.

3. She lets nothing define her — especially not her relationship.

She is not so much concerned with what a man does or doesn’t do. While this may sound counter-intuitive, it's because she always believes in her worth and is grounded with the fact that she is loved (and loves herself!) no matter what.

That's why she feels comfortable whens her man hang out with friends, or even when he misses a day of conversation with her from time to time. She encourages him to have his "me time" and is understanding of his passions. And despite his occasional need for independence, she still welcomes him with open and loving arms and a smiling face — because a happy women don't make a man the center of their lives. They have too much else going for them.

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So if you are constantly having relationship issues, then it's time to do some self-reflection and take a look at your inner happiness meter.

Women are the emotional leaders in a relationship, which is why happy women have happy relationships.

It's the Law of Attraction: like attracts like. So focus on your inner happiness first, in order to finally achieve the happy and fulfilling relationship of your dreams.

Gem Villamin is a love and life coach, Feminine energy healer who teaches women how to become a high-value dream girl through counter-intuitivve methods.  She specializes on teaching how to deal with a noncommittal man, and healing broken relationships. Join her community called The Cleopatra Project, on Facebook, or sign-up for her newsletter to receive her free expert guide, “Decode A Man’s Heart: The Way To His Love and Commitment," and let Gem help you reconnect with your inner goddess today. 

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