
By David Wygant — Written on Apr 01, 2013

OK, I have to admit it. I get turned on a lot.
But nothing turns me on more than when I’m sitting across from a woman I’m attracted to and I’m looking deep into her eyes and she’s looking back into mine, making direct eye contact.
I wonder what she’s thinking.
Nothing turns me on more than when I am on a date and I’m sharing a story, and the woman is looking directly into my eyes.
Nothing turns me on more than a woman that’s not afraid of me, a woman that challenges me, that makes me think and tells me how she feels without worrying about what I think or feel or how I’m going to react.
If you want a man to be intrigued by you — look at him.
Stare into his eyes. It drives men crazy. It makes us wonder what you’re thinking.
We love it. It turns us on mentally and physically.
A lot of women are afraid of eye contact, they’re afraid to look in a man’s eyes, they’re afraid to be 100% honest because they feel like it takes away their power.
Or they just get inside their head and start thinking about all the ten-thousand things.
But here’s the deal: eye contact is power. It takes a certain level of confidence and strength to hold eye contact with someone—especially if you’re attracted to them—without looking away.
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So the next time you’re out on a date, look deep into his eyes, smile and feel great about where you are and what’s going on.
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You’ll both be better off for it.