3 Ways To Attract Your Soulmate Into Your Life

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What Is The Law Of Vibration? How To Find Your Soulmate When You’re Ready To Love
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"Is he my soulmate?"

Your readiness to meet your soulmate is completely under your control. It’s not about what you do or how you look but about how good you feel.

And to know how to find your soulmate and be ready to love someone new, you must first know the Law of Vibration.

What is the Law of Vibration and how can it help attract soulmates?

 According to One-Mind-One-Energy, "everything in the Universe moves and vibrates — everything is vibrating at one speed or another. Nothing rests."

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The Law of Vibration takes into account a new understanding of the true nature of the universe in which we live.

Thanks to discoveries in the field of quantum physics, we now know that everything in the manifest universe, which appears to be so solid and material — like the chair you’re sitting on or the screen you’re looking at —is made up entirely of energy.  

Our physical bodies are comprised of energy, and so are our thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and desires.

All energy vibrates at its own particular frequency which is transmitted through the airwaves like a radio signal and is registered by everyone and everything around us.

The Law of Vibration is based on the understanding that the people, situations, and experiences that we draw into our lives are always a perfect energetic match to the frequency that we are sending out.

We send these vibrations out through the actions we take, the words we speak, and most significantly, through the feelings, moods, perceptions and conclusions that we harbor in the privacy of our own hearts and minds.   

Even if we never voice them, they are silently but powerfully conveyed to all-that-is, because the universe responds not to our words, but to our vibration.

All that we manifest and don’t manifest into our lives are governed by the laws of vibration and attraction.

So, how can you learn to navigate this invisible world of vibration and prepare yourself energetically to call in the love of your life?  

To start off with finding your soulmate using the Law of Vibration, you need to be ready for love and take these 3 steps.

1. Listen to your built-in guidance system

Thankfully, understanding vibration isn’t as elusive as it might seem because each of us was born with an emotional guidance system that allows us to decipher the vibration that we’re offering in every moment.

With a little practice, we can learn to calibrate it to magnetize any outcome we desire.  

You can be sure that your vibration is ready to receive your soulmate when your dominant thoughts and emotions on the topic are high-flying, fast-moving, and you feel fabulous when you contemplate your eventual rendezvous.  

When you’re not slowing down your desire with resistance, this meeting unfolds naturally, joyfully, and often in ways you could never have predicted.

But, on the other side of this spectrum, if thinking about your soulmate brings up feelings of discouragement or self-doubt, the internal tug-of-war you feel within you is evidence that some part of you is pulling in opposition to your own desire.  

All that is necessary for you to become vibrationally ready for your soulmate to enter your life is to stop opposing your own desire.  

Said another way, the better you feel, the more easily you will attract him or her.  Step two of this process will help to get you there.

2. Release yourself from the past 

Feelings like resentment, disappointment, unworthiness, jealousy or self-doubt carry extremely low-vibration energy. 

To the extent that we allow ourselves to dwell on what we perceive as a painful past, we will continue to hold ourselves vibrationally apart from the soulmate relationship we desire.

To release this energy, focus on the clarity that ultimately came out of each of your past experiences.

How many times has something initially disappointing led you to something truly wonderful? 

What have your previous relationships taught you about the qualities that you value most in a soulmate?  

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By focusing on the clarity you now have as a result of what you have lived, you’ll raise your vibration, drastically improve the way you feel, and strengthen your positive attraction power.

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3. Conjure the essence of your desire

Behind every desire — big or small, intangible or material — is a longing to experience a particular feeling.

 At the essence of your desire to attract your soulmate is a belief that being with him or she will make you feel a certain way.  

If you can identify this essential feeling and consciously nurture it within yourself, you will not only speed the attraction process, but you’ll also ensure that the one you’re calling in is a match to what’s truly important to you in a mate.  

To uncover the essence behind your desire to meet your soulmate, you need only ask yourself two questions:  

  • Why do I want to be with this person?   
  • If I were already with them, how do I think I would feel?  

When you align your thoughts, emotions, imagination, and beliefs with the essence of anything you desire, you draw it to you on the current of your vibration, invisibly and yet powerfully magnetizing it into your life.

These three steps will take your creative powers to a realm that is deeper than what can be experienced through physical senses and will yield you results dramatically different than what can be accomplished through physical activity alone.  

Resonant vibrations are naturally drawn together through the powerful Law of Attraction.

By aligning your vibration with the feeling essence of what you desire in a soulmate relationship, you’ll attract someone who reflects and enhances the very highest aspects of you.

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Christy Whitman is a transformational leader, celebrity coach and the New York Times bestselling author of The Art of Having It All: A Woman’s Guide to Unlimited Abundance.

This article was originally published at christywhitman.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.