How To Talk To Him, Per Astrology

Find out what he likes and you'll be fine.

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Communication is important. It can be the one thing that makes or breaks a relationship before it even truly begins.

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How a person chooses to talk to someone and what they choose to talk about can say a lot about who they are and what they care about. When a person is enjoying a conversation, it is easy to notice based on their body language and the passion in their voice.

When they aren’t enjoying a conversation, their responses can become short and you can tell they’d rather be anywhere else. Some people don’t care what the conversation is about as long as it seems genuine, while others only enjoy conversations that are mentally stimulating.

But how do you know what a person prefers if you’ve never spoken to them before or don’t know them as well yet? One way to do this would be by asking for their horoscope sign and then proceeding to do some research.


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Zodiac signs are a great way to find out about a person’s likes and dislikes as well as how they best interact with others. You can use this information to your advantage when you wish to approach a guy and initiate conversation with him. If he happens to be an air zodiac sign, then you would know he likes having intellectual conversation.

Therefore, it would be best to talk to him about books or philosophy. If he happens to be a Taurus or a Cancer, then you would know family is extremely important to them.

They would therefore enjoy you talking to them about your favorite childhood memories and your relationships with your loved ones.


So, if you’re feeling nervous about where to start, read below to let astrology help you to get an idea of how to talk to him based on his zodiac sign. Knowing a bit about his horoscope is half the battle.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

People born under the sign of Aries are great communicators. Aries men believe in being direct and honest and expects others to do the same. He strongly dislikes uncertainty, so when talking to him be open about your intentions with him. Show him that you are confident in yourself and your abilities to intrigue him. By doing this he will be more inclined to take you seriously and continue to talk to you about an array of other topics. 


TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

A Taurus values genuine conversation. Therefore he will appreciate a girl who takes the time out to find out what he cares about and talk to him about it. One of the most important things to him is customs and routines.

Talk to him about your upbringing and how it has affected your life thus far and ask him to do the same. There is nothing like having meaningful talks to make a Taurus happy. 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

The sign of Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet that represents communication. Gemini's are social butterflies who enjoy chatting with people who are strong willed. Gemini men don't care what the theme of the conversation is as long as they are being intellectually stimulated. When you talk to him make sure you are knowledgeable on the topic being discussed and convey how you feel with a clear flow of words. 

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)


Cancer men don't talk too much, so it will be up to you to initiate the conversation and make him comfortable opening up to you. He cares deeply about family bonds, as Cancer is the sign of family. Talk to him about your loved ones and paint vivid pictures of your fondest memories for him. He is genuinely interested in hearing about the lives of others. 

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Leo's enjoy being admired. The best way to talk to him is to start by complimenting him. Show him that you have been paying attention to him, and he will gladly return the favor. Once this is done, you should be able to transition into more open conversation.


Leos like to feel manly, so take the time to tell him about a problem you think only he can solve. He will ask a ton of questions as he loves being able to use his mind to solve difficult problems. 

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Virgos are super shy. Therefore it would be best to talk to a Virgo man over the phone or through text to ease the pressure. A few things he enjoys are animals, nature, books and art. Talk to him about any of these topics and he will forget about how scared he was as he finds his confidence through talking about things he knows a lot about. You won't be able to get him to stop. 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Libra is an air sign that loves constant mental stimuli. They enjoy sharing with others, and like people who have a lot to say. Libra men in particular like to discuss any and everything, no matter how small it might seem. Talk to him about your day, your fears and your dreams. He will be inspired. 

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)


Scorpios live to experience and express emotions. Start the conversation by telling him about how you feel. He likes someone who can be honest, so don't hesitate to tell him how you feel about him or about love. Don't even be scared to flirt with him a little. A Scorpio man will be attracted to your confidence and openly flirtatious and affectionate nature. 

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Sagittarius men are eternal travelers. There is nothing they love more than traveling to get a better understanding of the meaning of life. Talk to him about some of the places you have either visited or would like to visit and why. Exchange your best travel stories and bond over being adventurous individuals.  


CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

Capricorn's don't like it when people come off as being too nosey. The best thing for you to do is to keep the conversation light. Talk about music or holidays, both topics he likes that aren't heavy. Follow his lead and keep up the superficial conversation until he feels comfortable enough to open up about family and other things he deeply cares about. 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Like a Libra and a Gemini, an Aquarius is an air sign. This means they are intellectual beings who get bored if they are not being mentally stimulated during conversation.

As a humanitarian, you should talk to him about charities that interest you and why helping others is important to you. This will get his mind working as he is reminded about his own plans to help change the world. 


PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

A Pisces man is someone who knows what others want before they know themselves. He will like it if you are completely open with him, so start by talking about yourself and giving him a well-rounded idea of who you are.

Afterwards, flip the script and ask him questions that will encourage him to open up to you about his feelings. This isn't something he does often so it will make for good conversation. 


Alexis George is a writer who covers love, relationship advice, astrology and personality topics.