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Sometimes things just don't work out, but it's always for the best.
By Josephine Fuller — Written on Jul 13, 2018
You will love people who are right for you for a period of time and then things change, and you aren't the best match anymore, so you breakup. Have you ever met someone and the relationship was really good on paper, but it just didn't pan out in person?
You probably just assume they were undateable, but lo and behold you see that they found someone a few months later. He changed for the better. You never expected him to.
What was wrong with you? Was it even you? Or is this just some weird fluke? Everyone has that one person who they don't understand why it didn't work out with.
You're sure it wasn't you, but it also really wasn't them. It's all very weird and it feels like the whole world is conspiring against you. The feelings that you're going to be single forever start to pile on, and you don't really know where to go from there.
The truth is, sometimes it really is them and not you. Certain zodiac signs just aren't meant to be, and if you end up in one of those pairs you'll know very quickly.
The process can be drawn out if you're a little stubborn, and refuse to face the facts. The best thing to do is be honest with yourself and your partner when things start going south. Sometimes you can make things work and get back to being happy, but if you can't it's important to understand why so that you don't sabotage your future relationships.
By looking at a person's horoscope, you can learn and understand the reasons he changed and was right for her, but not you, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
An Aries man loves someone who can stroke his ego and also put up a good fight. He loves the chase, so if it ends too quickly that might send him looking for another game to play. Also, if you're the type who becomes whoever they're dating, that can be a reason he walked away. These leaders like other leaders who can hold their own.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
If you were pushing your bull to commit before he was ready, it's most definitely what sent him running for the hills. Taureans like the process of getting into a relationship, but also have no time for games. If he feels like you're on the same level as him, he'll move on quickly.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Shy girls are not something a Gemini has the time for. They like the bold types who make the first move and are unpredictable, in bed and out. Don't get your heart set on a Gemini if you're the timid type.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are ridiculously sweet and respectful. This means you're going to have to make the first move. If you wait around forever then chances are he's going to find someone else. The family also means a lot to them, the relationship you have with yours could sway their opinion of you in one direction or the other.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo's are the fun guys to be around. They want someone who can match their outgoing personality. If you can't hang out with him and his friends without being the awkward silent girlfriend, then he'll probably move on. Talking from experience, Leos also hate people who bring them down. Don't be the Debbie Downer of the group and you can score yourself a winner.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
If you're super messy and unorganized like me, you probably aren't dating a Virgo. These guys love a girl who has it all together and wrapped with a cute bow. If anything is out of place, whether it be your wrinkled shirt or an unmade bed, it could make him think twice about hanging out with you again.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Gossipers are a huge no on the Libra's list. If you aren't a down to earth super chill chick, then it'll be hard to catch a Libra's eye. They don't tend to stay single for long though, so if you have someone in mind you need to make a move before someone else does.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Let's cut to the chase here, Scorpios are freaks. They like sex and they like it a lot. They like to try new things when it comes to sex, and they like to keep a low profile about everything in life. If you aren't comfortable with that it could be a deal breaker.
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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
A Sagittarius is just as loving and adventurous as you can imagine. The best fit for him is someone who lets him go on adventures and is also down to accompany him on a few. Live life to the fullest with him, but don't smother him.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorns want tradition and something long-term. If you love a Capricorn and want them to keep you, just give them time and let things happen on their own. Honesty is the best policy with us Caps, so don't get caught in a lie or else it's over.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
An Aquarian likes his free time to just hang out and relax. He definitely loves hanging out with you but appreciates if you can both live your own lives. Be your own person and don't get lost in the relationship.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
If you put out the idea that you're just looking for a fling, it'll scare away a Pisces. They love being in love and are known to fall hard and fast. If they get the vibe that you aren't falling as fast as them or not someone who would do well long term, they won't waste their time.