50 Best Quotes To Remind You That Forgiveness Makes You Stronger

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Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

Forgiving someone is hard. Whether it’s trying to forgive someone who personally hurt you or trying to forgive yourself for something you've done, forgiveness is one of the hardest things to learn in life. It can seem impossible at times.

And yet, forgiveness is vital to a healthy life and healthy relationships. You simply cannot hold onto too much anger for too long. It never ends well.

Forgiving someone doesn’t always mean forgetting — it simply is the process of letting go of all of the negative emotions surrounding the event and not holding it against the person anymore (whether it’s yourself or someone else).

Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily even mean that you have to tolerate the person anymore. I mean, let’s be real, while you should forgive everyone, there is still a level of toxicity around that relationship that no one should have to tolerate.


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Some situations get so bad that you can no longer allow certain people into your life anymore. While, in some cases, this is absolutely acceptable and even a good idea. That doesn’t mean you don’t still need to forgive them.

For example, for most, cheating in a romantic relationship is a deal breaker. Automatic time to break up. That doesn’t mean you don’t need to forgive them. Dump them, forgive them, move on.

You can forgive someone and still take a healthy approach and not allow them to be a part of your life anymore. Frankly, this is an important part of the growing up process.

But still, everyone needs forgiveness and understanding at some point or another, despite how difficult this can be. So, we're here to help you out. Here are our picks of the 50 best forgiveness quotes to help you heal and move forward with your own life.

I hope that they help you find the strength to let go of the past, the hurt and any heart ache that may be holding you back. Be your best you, boo!


1. Forgiveness makes you stronger. 

“You’ll never know how strong your heart is until you learn to forgive who broke it.”- Anonymous


 

2. Forgiveness takes courage. 

“One of the most courageous decisions you’ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.”-Anonymous


 

3. Forgiveness is a gift.

“Forgiving you is my gift to you. Moving on is my gift to myself.”-Anonymous


4. Forgiveness is freeing.

“Forgiveness is just another name for freedom.” –Byron Katie


 

5. Forgiveness helps let go of hate.

“Let no man pull you low enough to hate him.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.


6. Forgive for a better future.

“Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does change the future.”-Anonymous


7. Let it teach you and then let it go.

“Let it hurt. Let it heal. Let it go.”-Anonymous


8. Be the bigger person.

“Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say sorry and an even stronger person to forgive.”-Anonymous


9. Forgiving someone doesn’t change them, but it might change you.

“Forgiving you means I no longer dwell on what an a**hole you are. It doesn’t mean you are no longer an a**hole.”-Anonymous


10. Forgiveness brings good karma.

“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” -Wayne Dyer


11. This is just good advice. 

“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.” -C.S. Lewis

 


 

12. Always live in the present. 

“Forgiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present … even if the past still hurts.”-Anonymous


 

13. Forgiveness according to Christianity.

“In the shadow of my hurt, forgiveness feels like a decision to reward my enemy. But in the shadow of the cross, forgiveness is merely a gift from one undeserving soul to the next.” -Andy Stanley


14. Forgiveness is a choice.

“You either get bitter or you get better.It's that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.” -Josh Shipp


15. Because sometimes forgiveness is fair.

“None of us should be defined by the worst thing we’ve ever done.” -Kevin R. Duncan


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16. Forgive because pent up anger can crush you.

“Forgiveness doesn’t excuse their behavior. Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart.”-Anonymous


 

17. Forgive for you, not for them.

“Holding a grudge doesn’t make you strong; it makes you bitter. Forgiving doesn’t make you weak; it sets you free.”-Anonymous


18. Because once you cool off, you might understand.

“The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back.”-Anonymous


 

19. Keep it classy.

“There is nothing more classy or powerful than showing forgiveness and grace to someone who does not deserve it.”-Anonymous


20. Be sure to look at the big picture.

“When someone does something wrong, don’t forget all the things they did right.”-Anonymous


21. Forgive because the world needs love.

“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” -Bryant H. Mcgill


22. Let yourself grow.

“Remember, when you forgive, you heal. And when you let go, you grow.”-Anonymous


23. Forgive so you can move forward.

“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” -Dr. Steve Maraboli


24. Forgive to prove how strong you are.

“Compassion and forgiveness are signs of strength.”-Anonymous


25. Because sometimes people are worth it.

“Sometimes you forgive people simply because you still want them in your life.”-Anonymous


26. Don’t be discouraged, forgiveness takes time.

“Reminder: Forgiveness is a process. A choice you make over and over, every day, until you’re free of hurt.”-Anonymous


27. Sweet, sweet forgiveness.

“Forgiveness is the best revenge.”- Imam Ali


 

28. Because giving into anger is too easy.

“The man who forgives is far stronger than the man who fights.” -Nathan Craoll


 

29. Don’t let an argument go on longer than it has to.

“Arguments drag out because one is too stubborn to forgive and the other is too proud to apologize.”-Anonymous


30. Because even if it wasn’t your fault, how you react is your responsibility.

“Your wound is probably not your fault. But your healing is your responsibility.”-Anonymous


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31. Because you need to be OK without the other person.

“Forgiveness keeps you from being bound by something the other person might never set right.”-Tony Evans 


32. Because life is about choices.

“If you can’t forgive and forget, pick one.”-Robert Brault


33. Forgive because you don’t need the distraction.

”Hating someone makes them important. Forgiving hem makes them obsolete.”-Anonymous


34. Only you can change your life.

“I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.”-Anonymous


35. Forgive because you deserve to heal.

“Blame keeps wounds open. Only forgiveness heals.” -Thomas S. Monson


36. Not forgiving wont fix anything.

“Hate has caused a lot of problems in this world, but it has not solved one yet.” -Maya Angelou


37. Forgive because it’s better than regret.

“Forgive and forget. Not revenge and regret.”-Anonymous


38. A friendly reminder.

“Your mistakes do not define you.”-Anonymous


39. Because the process of forgiving can bring us closer.

“Until we have seen someone’s darkness, we don’t really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone’s darkness , we don’t really know what love is.” -Marianne Williamson


40. Well, sometimes.

“Sometimes the first step to forgiveness is understanding the other person is a complete idiot.”-Anonymous


41. It’s never easy, especially when you’re close.

“It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend.” -William Blake


42. Forgive because sometimes, it’s fair.

“We are all in need of mercy.”-Anonymous


43. Forgive even the ones you can’t stay with.

“I don’t think people understand that you can forgive a person and not allow them back into your life. That is possible, very possible.” -Alex Elle


44. Throwing truth bombs at you now.

“Relationships don’t thrive because the guilty are punished, but because the wounded are merciful.” -Max Lucado


45. Forgive for both of you.

“When one forgives, two souls are set free.”-Anonymous


46. Because you’ll feel better once you do it.

“Forgiveness is unlocking the door to set someone free … and realizing you were the prisoner.” -Max Lucado


47. Because you never know when it could be too late.

“In the blink of an eye, everything can change. So forgive often and love with all your heart. You may never have that chance again.”-Anonymous


48. Because forgiving isn’t even the hard part.

“Forgiving them isn’t the hard part, it’s trying to trust them again.”-Anonymous


49. Let go, even if they’re not sorry.

“I wish for you the wisdom to realize that forgiveness has nothing to do with an apology.” -Steve Maraboli


50. Forgive because someday you’re going to make a mistake too.

“Everybody makes mistakes. If you can’t forgive others, don’t expect others to forgive you.”-Anonymous


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Nicole Bradley-Bernard is a writer who needs coffee more than she needs anyone’s approval. She enjoys putting bright colors in her curly brown hair, spending time outside on cool days and being with her partner in life, Eric, who she considers a continuing source of inspiration.


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