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Think you know how to flirt?
By Caitlin Butkiewicz — Written on Sep 13, 2017
When we were younger, we were taught that being flirty is a bad thing. But why is it that being a flirt is thought to be a negative trait?
Being able to naturally flirt without looking like a fool is the ultimate dream. Most adults know how important it is to have a flirting style. Astrology actually reveals that some zodiac signs are better flirts than others and each sign has their own unique flirting style, too.
Flirting comes easily to some of the zodiac signs without them even realizing it. Certain zodiac signs have an amazing flirting style that makes attracting another person easy to do.
These zodiac signs know when to make their move, throw their shot, and how to aim a free-throw like no ones business.
These are zodiac sign flirt kings who are on top of their A-game even when they’re not trying. While these signs excel in flirting (when they don’t even have to make any legitimate attempts), some of the signs are on the complete opposite of the spectrum when it comes to their own style of flirting with others. Honestly, they don't know how to flirt. Plain and simple.
But not all of the zodiac signs are naturally flirtatious.
Some of us don’t know how to force ourselves how to naturally express their feelings through flirting and body language clues. When someone flirts with us, we often don't even notice that a pass has been made.
When we're actually putting in effort and trying to be flirty, it’s even worse when it doesn't work out the way we want it to.
We get flustered, stutter over our speech, and ultimately end up looking silly to the person we were trying to make our move on in the first place, and we forget to use an emoticon or two when sending a text to signal 'Hey, I'm interested."
Flirting really isn’t for everyone, but luckily, you don’t always need to use it.
If you’re one of the zodiac signs who with a horoscope that reveals a tried and true flirting style, we all envy you. And if you’re an awkward flirter and you don’t even know how to wink, that’s fine too — I’m sure you dazzle people using other tactics to get attention of someone you like.
You probably already know how your flirting game is, but you might want to know how your flirting style ranks when compared to other zodiac signs. We've ranked all 12 of the zodiac signs from most flirty to least flirtatious and what their flirting style is, too.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
An Aries is one of the most outgoing of the signs, and they don’t even have to try. This includes having an easier time communicating with others.
Flirting is something that comes naturally to an Aries, and often times, she doesn't even realize she's flirting when she's doing it. That’s how easy it is for her.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
A Gemini woman is pretty intense and she pours emotion into anything, including her daily conversations. She could be considered a PRO at flirting, and all of her friends wonder how she learned her skills.
When it comes to flirting advice, I’d recommend you talk to your Gemini friend.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leo, like Gemini, is self-confident and a natural born leader. She often takes initiative, and isn't afraid to be a bit flirty when she needs to.
Leos knows how to keep it cool and calm while playing the flirting game, and when she puts on her charm, it always works for her.
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo tends to be shy and quiet, but despite all of this, she's naturally flirtatious. If she puts zero effort into flirting, she just rolls with it and looks good doing it.
Sometimes though, she begins to over-think it and starts to stumble over her words. But even then, her flirting game is too good to lose.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Like Virgo, Scorpios are natural born flirts. Scorpio speaks so passionately about anything and everything that it all sounds like flirting — and she does it deliberately.
Scorpios love flirting and they often mess with people while using their flirtatious charm.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancer tends to be deep and emotional. She does most things with emotion, and this includes flirtation. She doesn’t flirt as much as the rest of the signs, because Cancers tend to only flirt if someone else started it.
A Cancer won’t take initiative, but she'll play along.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
A Capricorn is cool and calm. She has her own little subtle ways of flirting, like playing with her hair a certain way or touching her hair.
But, Capricorns only flirt with people they deem worthy. She believes only certain people are worth her time, otherwise she won’t bother.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
A Taurus tries to stay cool and collected, but she can often get flustered. She begins to over-think her flirting style and stumbles over every word.
She's not very good at flirting, but luckily the person she's trying to make a move on will think her stumbling is cute and go for it.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius often tries to flirt, but when she does, it doesn’t come off as flirting. The other person thinks Sagittarius is just being nice and playful, not flirting.
Eventually, she just gives up. It’s not that she doesn't want to flirt, she just doesn't really know how to.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Libra actually knows quite a bit about love and relationships. Rather than flirting and playing games with someone, she often prefers to be serious and upfront.
She would much rather skip and avoid the flirting steps and go straight to actually getting to know someone.
READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius knows how to flirt — she just prefers not to. She prefers to “wow” someone using her real personality and intellect rather than pretend to be someone she's not and throw in a few cheesy jokes here and there.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces tends to be more shy when it comes to flirting, especially when it comes to talking in person.
Despite her quiet demeanor, she tends to attract a lot of people towards her with her personality, proving that you don’t need to be a flirt to score dates.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)