7 Most Intimate Sex Positions Men Love (To Make Him Feel Closer To You)

These sex positions involve TRUE intimacy.

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What sex positions will lead to him knowing you love him? Well, it can be the ones you know he likes. But it's also, of course, the super-intimate ones.

"Love is different for everyone, but the Missionary position is best for gazing into the eyes of the one you love."

Of course, some may think a different position is actually the best way to show they love their partner. Maybe it's spooning or side by side. Or, maybe it's face to face. Perhaps it's not about the position at all, but maintaining eye contact. Maybe being so in sync you finish at exactly the same time or multiple times.


Showing you love someone is often about making that deeper connection, both emotionally or physically. So one with deeper penetration will be amazing on several levels, but consider trying ones that are intimate in another way, like mirror sex or spooning. Here are some great ones to start with.


1. The Yab Yum

"The man sits either cross-legged or with his legs outstretched, or he can sit at the end of the bed or on a couch. The woman straddles him and wraps her legs around his waist. This is an intimate position, great for connecting with your partner. It also offers her great G-spot stimulation and the opportunity to set the pace. Men tend to last longer in this position too, so your love fest can last even longer," says Antonia Hall, MA., a psychologist, relationship expert and sexpert.

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2. Ankles Over Shoulders

"The women is lying on her back with a leg on each of her partner's shoulders, which allows for deep penetration. It also offers great A-spot stimulation for some deeply fulfilling orgasms for her," says Hall.

3. Mirror Sex


"What better way to show him you love him than to literally show him? Having sex in front of a mirror can be intimate and very hot," Hall advises.

4. From Behind

"While there are many sex positions that are loving and show love, there are several that show love by way of sacrifice. Doggy Style or rear-entry positions usually rank first in the polls for positions women like least. Perhaps it has something to do with fact that most women like to see the person they're having sex with or that there’s a high order of dominance and submission associated with this position. Or, maybe the animalistic nature of it is too close to the bone.


Whatever the case may be, it’s logical to assume that there are many women who engage in Doggy Style with their partners out of sufferance, rather than any genuine approval. From that standpoint, it’s something they do out of love," says Forrest of Aneros, a sex toy company.

5. Reverse Cowgirl

Reverse Cowgirl provides great visuals for the man, which is probably why it's one of the sex positions men love the most.


"It shows you are willing to put in the work. While adding some sexual audio commentary, this is a sure thing to make his heart sing," says sex and dating expert  Ingrid Levin.

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6. The Splitter

The Splitter allows the man to penetrate deeper while you look into each other's eyes.


"For an extra Kama Sutra experience you can use your free hand to touch your nipples and describe to your lover how much he is pleasuring you," says Levin.

7. Chair Sex


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In a chair, it’s sultry straddling a man while kissing his neck and doing lots of dirty talking while you are rubbing your breast on his chest. This sensory overload is a sure way he knows he is the king of your heart, according to Levin.


Aly Walansky is a NY-based lifestyles writer. Her work appears in dozens of digital and print publications regularly. Visit her on Twitter or email her at alywalansky@gmail.com.