How To Know If She's Really Flirting With You, Based On Her Zodiac Sign

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Oh, flirting. We've been trying to understand it since we were preteens and yet, as adults, we STILL haven't quite figured it out. 

It can be the MOST confusing act of affection ever, and half the time you can’t even tell if it’s real or if you’re making it up!

Women have stealthy ways of flirty, we make it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to know what’s going on in our heads.

Some people are natural flirts, they flirt with EVERYONE no matter who it is. They make it even harder to know if they’re truly into you!

Then there are the girls who are so subtle about their flirting, you seriously have to pay attention to how they act around you AND other people to know if their flirting is real.

It can be seriously embarrassing to make a move on someone you THOUGHT was flirting with you, but was really just being nice. It’s a SERIOUS blow to your ego.

So what REALLY are the signs of flirting?


RELATED: The 3 Zodiac Signs MOST Likely To Lead You On


We know the basics: sensual touches, giggles, hair flips and batting the eyelashes.

But, honestly, women have WAY more depth than that.

How they flirt is really dependent on their characteristics. Are they shy or outgoing? What are their favorite things, and do they affect how they flirt? Do they get nervous around a crush or babble to fill the air?

Seriously. So complicated.

If I had it figured out, trust me, I’d let you know. But I don’t. Women are as much of a mystery to ourselves than to you. BUT, what I can give you is as much information as we know, and that’s Zodiac signs.

If you look to astrology and to a women’s horoscope, her zodiac sign can tell us a bit about how they interact with people they life.

Lucky for you, I’m letting you in on our secrets.

Here are all the secrets you need to know in order to tell if she’s REALLY flirting with you!

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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If she’s picking on you, you know she likes you. Aries doesn’t like to seem less than number one, so she’s likely going to challenge you in, well, EVERYTHING.

The fun and games will show her mischievous side and you’ll KNOW she’s flirting the moment she gets that little grin on her face when she beat you at EVERY game.

If you can keep up with her speed and competition, she's SO into you.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

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You’ll know Taurus is flirting with you because she’ll likely be all over you. Taurus is super sensitive to touch; she loves hand-holding, brushing arms, and shoulder rubs.

If she starts holding onto your arm unexpectedly, don’t point it out, or she’ll quickly move her arm just out of spite and embarrassment!

Taurus is sweet but she's also as stubborn as a bull!

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

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If Gemini invites you on a spontaneous adventure, get ready to be SERIOUSLY flirted with. Gemini is super affectionate, so sometimes it’s hard to tell if she’s REALLY into you.

But if she includes you in her many little adventures to new places, she’s DEFINITELY interested.

She'll probably seem nervous if she REALLY likes you!

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

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If she cooks for you, she’s TOTALLY flirting with you. Cancer is super emotional and sensitive, so it’s hard for her to be comfortable around someone she may like.

If she’s comfortable enough to share a good meal with you (which she LOVES), or share something personal like art or writing, she’s definitely serious about you!

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

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If she takes the time to focus on you, and only you, she’s flirting with you. Leo is a serious social butterfly, and the likelihood of her spending more than 5 seconds talking to a single person is SLIM.

So if she’s seriously engaged in your conversation, showing HUGE enthusiasm, she’s SO into you.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

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If she introduces you to her pets, she’s definitely flirting with you! Virgo is a tough nut to crack; she never opens up about her feelings and she’s always nervous around you.

What Virgo DOES love is her animals. They mean the WORLD to her, and if she introduces you to them, you better like them, because she’s putting you up to the test!

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

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If she invites you to everything, she’s flirting with you!

Libra is the kinda girl who loves to SHARE everything, so you know she’s flirting when she starts inviting you to go on hikes or anything nature related.

She loves the outdoors, and if you do too, you’ll likely spend the night star gazing and sharing your deepest secrets.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

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If she teases you, she’s flirting with you! She’ll tease you constantly, but it’s so cute, you’ll laugh it all off.

Scorpio is not known for being subtle; you will KNOW when she’s into you because she’ll pretty much tell you exactly how she feels. She's not into playing games — she'd just rather tell you she likes you, and then see where it goes from there.

She says it how it is, no matter how bold or brass!

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

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If she opens up to you, she’s flirting with you! Sagittarius is naturally flirty, but doesn't always want to associate with people who aren't in her friend group, so if she's with you laughing and having a good time, bets are that she's into you..

She’ll make you laugh, buy you food, and do everything that SCREAMS flirting, but that’s not how you’ll TRULY know she’s into you.

You’ll know when she starts showing her more serious side, invites you to her favorite secret spots and shows her vulnerability.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

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If she shows you her favorite songs, she’s flirting with you. Capricorn takes life seriously, It’s hard to get this girl to crack a smile!

Music is a secret passion of hers. If she shows you her favorite music, it definitely means she’s opening up to you and wants you to see the side of her NO ONE else does.

Serious added bonus if she lets you meet her family!

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

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If she wants to hang out with you alone, she’s flirting with you! Aquarius likes her alone time, but she’s also an awesome socialite and has a great time with friends.

If she includes you in her “alone” time, she definitely wants something more. She tends to run from emotional expression so it may take a while for her to warm up to you!

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

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It’s SO hard to know when Pisces is flirting because she’s seriously kind to everyone! A key sign she’s flirting with you is if shows her more romantic side. Or if she's showing those OBVIOUS signs of flirting. 

Playing with her hair. Laughing at dumb jokes. Licking her lips. She’ll likely invite you to super romantic outings, like a sunset walk on the beach.

If she sings, plays music or reads you poetry she is SO flirting with you!