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The Way You Screw It All Up When You Fall In Love, Per Your Zodiac

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Falling In Love Zodiac Sign

Let's face the facts — all of us adapt to new things differently than everyone else. That's what makes us all unique. Particularly when it comes to falling in love.

We all love the feeling of falling in love, but we ALL go about it SO differently! Want to know how you, personally, go about that new and exciting phase? Well, based on your zodiac sign, we've got you covered.

Believe it or not, some of us freak out when we fall in love.

We're afraid of commitment, or think that it's all a big mistake — maybe we're afraid to get our hearts broken. Or, some of us are those people who go all in from day one. 

Find out how YOU deal with falling in love, based on your zodiac sign:

Aries (March 21 - April 19)


An Aries girl is extremely independent and courageous in her love life. She's got the courage to go up to that guy in the bar, and she's independent enough to take it if they reject her.

Don't be fooled, though. Just because she makes them bite the bait doesn't mean she always knows what she's doing when he's hooked. She can become quite impulsive, impatient and outright moody.

Whether it's because she's bored or is scared, she cannot seem to control her bad habit of trying to push you away. Hang tight, fellas!

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)


A Taurus chick is known best for her ability to become immediately attached. She does anything to please her man and make sure he's happy at all times.

But her dark side of falling in love is that she becomes overly possessive. Especially if she falling hard in love, she tends to be a real control freak. 

But hey, it's a real compliment though — because if she wasn't falling hard, then she'd dump him like a bad habit.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)


A Gemini soul is one that is sociable, easy to relate to and definitely the girl at the party spitting the wittiest comments. Although she's like Aries in the sense that she's able to reel a potential spouse in with no issues, she's pretty inconsistent.

Watch out, fellas, because this chick isn't in it to stay for TOO long. She can become pretty dissatisfied fairly quickly and this can become a MAJOR issue, especially in the game of love.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)


A Cancer girl is always so sweet, so innocent and one of (if not the MOST) compassionate human beings. Whatever you feel she feels.

She's a partner who truly understands what it means to stand by your side through thick and thin. Once she falls in love, she falls hard and it's hard to convince her you don't deserve her trust.

However, the kind of sensitivity a Cancer has can get a little out of hand. Sometimes, she becomes too overbearing and feels WAY too much, to the point of no return. Watch out for this, because it'll be hard to help them pivot from the destructive route.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

Leo (July 23 - August 22)


A Leo's sign of a lion is definitely suiting to her personality. She's vibrant, outwardly (and inwardly) confident, and definitely is NOT afraid to speak her mind. She is not one to mess with.

Although she's confident, her emotions tend to become out of whack and she is no longer aligned with what she's actually doing. Completely detached, she might even become really annoying. She can get to a point where she knows no boundaries, and even attain quite a temper.

READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)


A Virgo's approach to love is at first, completely logical. Her greatest strength is her mind, so she definitely understands what it means to keep a healthy boundary and keep her emotions at bay until she feel you've gained her trust.

However, this can backfire and can backfire really quickly. She can become too logical, to the point that she can become extremely critical of you and your actions. She may be comfortable with you, but this actually may hurt the potential of the relationship because she can come across pretty mean when she asserts she's just being "honest."

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)


A Libra is really great at striking the right balance between being excited about her new love — being able to let it all out there — and keeping her emotions in check. However, once she starts telling her friends about you she can get pretty damn weak.

If one person has an "off" opinion, her perspective of you may change. You'll start to notice this pattern with her; anyone who comes her way that offers an opinion will have a HUGE influence on the way she conducts her life.

Good luck with that.

READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)


A Scorpio's strength is seriously admirable (try saying that five times fast). Once she feels she's connected with another person, all bets are off.

The great thing about her too is that when she approaches a new potential S.O, she will NEVER settle for less than what feels right. A Scorpio is confident in her free kind of spirit, however, she can definitely become stifling.

She expects to be the center of your world (because you're obviously the center of hers), but FYI: you may need to remind her once or twice that you BOTH need your own, individual life also.

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)


A Sagittarius is a girl who's ALWAYS down for adventure. Both physically and mentally. Needless to say, she's a WHOLE lot of fun. However, with great fun comes great responsibility (I know that's not how it goes, but work with me, here).

She tends to get so out of focus that she'll do things you won't quite understand. She almost NEVER pays any attention to detail, so some of her actions may definitely be misconstrued as selfish — but just remember, most likely it's not that at all.

Forgive her, man. She's just being her Sagittarius self!

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)


A Capricorn girl is quite the opposite from a Cancer. The harder she works at something, the more resentful she becomes. Needless to say, this can definitely put a damper in the love department.

Although her youth is the best time to catch her because she's spontaneous and capable of joy at this time, her age gives her more wisdom. She can settle down just as fast as she can run.

Sometimes, she can also be quite closed off and hard to reach, emotionally. Hang in there, though. She'll come around.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)


An Aquarius girl is NEVER a bore. She's constantly thinking and coming up with creative things. She definitely shake things up around her and is a total inspiration to everyone who she encounters.

Although her creativity makes her a bit strange, she always keeps the conversation going. However, her connection with reality definitely takes a toll on her ability to hold down a good relationship. She become an outcast but not because she naturally is the odd one out, she makes herself that way.

So, maybe it's a good thing that she stands out so much. With the right love match, she could be the ONE in your eyes, immediately.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)


Pisces is similar to an Aquarius in terms of her creativity. However, a Pisces is a bit more focused. She is out to find her true calling and purpose in her own, individual life. She embraces her strangeness with confidence which, in essence, makes her stand out in a positive light.

However, if her vision goes ary, she may push a potential love partner aside. If her love interest is a distraction in ANY way, (by the way, SHE is the one who does this) she will be quick to kick you to the curb.

She's a slippery slope but there is hope that she'll come around when the timing is right (for her). 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)