We Asked Men What They REALLY Notice About Women During Sex

And they did NOT hold back!

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When I'm having sex it is hard to focus on any one particular thing. 

There is so much sensation during sex, and often that sensation is connected to my feelings.

As a woman, I tend to focus on my partner's face. Guys' faces are so super expressive when they are having sex. Even the most closed-off guy in the world can give you a little peek into his heart and soul when he's having sex. 

But what exactly do guys notice about women during sex?


I know sometimes I get hung up on things like how my stomach looks in certain positions or if he thinks I smell okay during sex. What is going through a man's mind when he's having sex and looking at his partner? 

I decided to let my posse of anonymous men share their answers with me, and let me tell you, what they had to say wasn't just really hot, it was also well, really sweet! 

What do you REALLY notice about your partner during sex?

  • It depends on which partner. With one, I'm always paying attention to how close she is to orgasm (she's always on the verge of it; it's who she is), and how long I can make her go without. With my other current partner, it's her expressions when she's feeling good. She does this glorious fluttering-her-hand-beside-her-face thing when she's really feeling it that fills me with joy and makes me feel powerful.
  • How good they smell. How much I'm into them. How good they feel. All the best stuff. 

  • Their smell and the way their skin feels against mine.
  • Her face.
  • The faces she makes, the way her body moves , the way she looks at me, the sounds she makes. 
  • Her whole being......

  • Their passion, enthusiasm, the way their body moves and responds, the noises of ecstasy and pleasurable moans they make, the things they say...
  • The quivering of their body in response to foreplay. Best thing ever. 
  • Her expressions, which tell me how much she's enjoying sex. And how much her breasts and ass shake and jiggle, which is quite a turn on. 

  • How she moves and feels and sounds. 
  • The look of pleasure on her face. It's really a mix between facial expressions and body. You want to see that they are enjoying it and women's bodies are amazing.