Love, Self

3 Brave Guys Reveal How They REALLY Feel About Gals With Small Boobs

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This week a straight woman asks, "I think my boobs are too small — slightly pudgy guys have bigger boobs than me! Should I get a boob job?" Here's what three brave men really think about your small boobs.

1. Gay Committed Guy (Mark)

Gut response: No. Even though God knows how many Americans have some kind of body-image hangup, I don't think "society" is shaming those pudgy guys into getting lipo on their manboobs in order to look more attractive to women.

That said, if you think the pain and possible health risks associated with surgery and/or implants are worth it — if you really think it would improve your self-esteem, and you've exhausted all other options toward that end — it's your decision. Anyone who tells you that you "should" get a boob job is either a creep or a plastic surgeon or an editor at Us Weekly Magazine (the latter of which will be the first to mock your new rack for looking fake).

I have friends who have had minor work done — breasts (adding and subtracting), eyes, nose, thighs, tummy — and they've all been pleased with the results. Obviously, if you do decide to go through with it, find a reputable doctor, and don't go overboard with ridiculous porn star balloons that are out of proportion with the rest of your body.

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2. Straight Single Guy (Max)

It kills me not to automatically say, "Don't do it!" but I think it actually depends on a couple of things. Confidence, as you know, matters more than most factors when it comes to attraction. If you can't talk to a guy because you're too self-conscious about the size of your boobs, then you need to do something. But plastic surgery might not be the answer.

Boobs, as I and most guys see them, are always and only bonuses. If a girl has nice boobs, that's great. But I'm not going to see a girl and think, "Man, if she only had bigger boobs." That's just stupid. (If, however, this is the kind of guy you want, then by all means, get a boob job.)

Personally, I think fake boobs are gross. I believe that most guys agree, no matter how much porn would have you believe otherwise. But again, you gotta do what makes you feel sexy. (Oh, and please don't compare yourself to pudgy guys. That's the first step in gaining a little self-confidence.)

3. Straight Married Guy (Ben):

My wife's boobs have changed so much over the course of our relationship — from tiny to a handful to size F after our baby was born (we didn't even know they made size F!) and then back to C. Each step of the way I've been right there enjoying them. It's actually been one of the most amazing things about her body.

That's not to say your boobs are one day going to blossom or grow, but what's made my wife's body so immensely pleasurable for me and for her is her own comfort and confidence with it. Sexy doesn't equal boob size; sexy equals feeling good and being confident in yourself and your sexuality.

I say, learn to rock those nubs! You can always get the surgery later. Or have a baby.

This article was originally published at Em & Lo. Reprinted with permission from the author.