9 Very Honest Guys Reveal What They REALLY Think Of Threesomes

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Does your guy really want one or is it just a fantasy?

Let's be honest here: Are guys really trying to have threesomes or are they just saying so because they think they should? Threesomes aren't for everybody. They're extra work, take proper planning and more often than not, someone's feelings get hurt.

So, here's what men think of threesomes.

1. I'd love to have one.

"Not sure I'd ever be able to actually have one for real, but when I watch a movie or think about bringing two girls home, I’m not gonna lie and say that I wouldn't want to have one. That's like asking me if I want to have my cake and eat it, too. Who wouldn't say yes?" —Ian, 27

2. We want to say we want them.

"It's a guy thing. We want bigger muscles, we want butt sex, we want hotter girls and we want threesomes. Doesn't mean we really want them, but we want to say that we do. Sure, it's a societal thing, but I know that when I was younger I definitely tried to get my girlfriends to let me bring another girl into the mix. Clearly, it never worked out." —Noah, 31

3. It's good in theory, but not in practice.


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"For like two years I tried to get my girlfriend to agree to a threesome. I'd beg and plead and try to make her see how much 'fun' we'd have. When she finally caved and told me that if we found the right girl, she'd agree, I realized that I didn't actually want to have it. Something about seeing my girlfriend give in just because I thought I wanted something so badly made me rethink why I wanted it in the first place." —Ryder, 27

4. Men want them without even knowing if they actually do.

"Take any male-driven movie and tell me that they don’t make threesomes and sex look so easy and attainable. Or tell me that Playboy doesn’t make you think that it’s really possible to get it on with two hot girls and have everyone walk away feeling great. You can’t, because it isn’t real and isn't true." Jason, 28

5. I would know what to do.

"I think that I want a threesome, but I know if the time ever came I'd back out of it. I'd have no clue what to do!"  Jordan 30

6. I'm serious about having a threesome.


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"I told this girl I was dating that I was interested in having one and she said she had a friend I would love. If she was down, there was no way I was saying no. Her friend was really hot, too. Afterward, our relationship didn't work out — we wanted different things, it turned out — but I would definitely try to have one again." —Mark, 29

7. It's intimidating.

"The first time I took two girls home, I was speechless. I knew what to do with one girl, but two? That was a whole other body to worry about pleasing! It was intimidating. But once we got going it was way less messy than I pictured and the most fun I've ever had. Now, to do it again!" —Evan, 25

8. It's fun to do once.

"I was on vacation with my girlfriend and we spotted this babe down the beach. We both thought she was hot and we were both right out of college, so we decided to be a little crazy before we went back to the real world. We hung out with her, got to know her, took her for drinks, and she kind of came out and told us that she’d done it before and would be willing to do it with us. It was crazy how quickly things fell into place. We had a lot of fun but I don’t think I’d ever have another threesome. My luck was too good the first time." —Chris, 26

9. I want to have one just to say I did.


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"I haven’t had one yet, but it's on my bucket list. A few of my past girlfriends have shrugged off the idea of bringing home another person and adding them to the mix for a night, but I’m really serious about it. Obviously, I want to like it — and I know I will — but more than anything, I just want to have one." —Joe, 32

 

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