Sex Video: Who Is Responsible For Your Orgasm?

YourTango Expert Melissa Fritchle explains why sex is best when couples communicate.

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Do you blame your lover whenever you don't achieve orgasm during sex? Do you believe your orgasm is entirely in his hands? If so, this instructional sex video can help.


In this video, sex educator & therapist and YourTango Expert Melissa Fritchle explains that if your partner feels responsible for your pleasure, the bedroom can become a stressful environment. Sex is collaborative, and won’t feel gratifying unless couples can communicate openly about what feels good to them.

Want to learn how to talk with your partner to learn each other’s likes and dislikes? Check out the video above.