He Said "Don't Fall In Love With Me" - What Does That Mean?

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Dr. John Gray helps a woman read between the lines.

Are you dating a guy that warned you not to fall for him? You might be wondering what he means, and what that means for your relationship.

Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, is here to answer your question. As you might have guessed, your guy’s disclaimer is a warning sign. “Basically, he’s not ready to make a commitment, and when he’s telling you ‘don’t fall in love with me’, he’s basically saying ‘I don’t want to hurt you’,” explains Dr. Gray. Don’t be alarmed - that doesn’t have to mean the relationship is over!

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