So, Why DO Guys Love Oral Sex?

Honestly, what's so appealing about it?

Why Do Men Like Oral Sex?

Ladies, we know we're not the only ones who've been plagued by the following question: "What do men like about oral sex? I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blowjob but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like." After one of our readers asked, we feel so relieved that others were wondering the same thing! We know men love sex, and especially oral sex. We hear those spit/swallow debates, see those deep throating tips and all remember hearing that first classmate bragging in awe about getting his first blow job. But what's so great about third base? Does it really feel that good?


Check out this video answer from Ask YourTango, where readers go to seek out advice on love and relationships! The more you know, the better you can make your guy feel, after all (and if he's feeling good, we're willing to bet that you will be too!). Love for oral sex is not just a thing that men love, it is something people in general love. Learning to enjoy it will lead to a healthy sex life.To read what others had to say or to give your own advice, go here: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?


What do men like about oral sex?  I’m willing to put in the work but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me exactly what men like. - Kataroo from the YourTango community. 


YourTango members gave some great answers to this question.  Here’s what they had to say.

RobertATO says that when a woman enjoys giving oral sex, she’s showing that she really cares about you.

Scott Johnson likes it because it’s different from normal sex.  Not better, he emphasizes, just different.

Princess advises you to ask what your partner likes. Just like women, every guy is different. Watch their reaction and it’s easy to get the hang of what they like. 

Rio says oral sex makes a man feel relaxed and accepted. He loves eye contact during this act.

Finally, BlissConnection says that putting your mouth on that part of a man’s body is the highest compliment you can give someone. 


Well, Kataroo, sounds like men love the intimacy of oral sex.  Want to know what your man likes best?  Ask him!

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