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Just because someone is sexy AF, it's not a guarantee that they're amazing in bed. If you are passive as a slug and don’t do anything, you’re probably bored and your partner is too.
Most of us think of ourselves as fantastic lovers (please, someone come up with a less skeevy word) and we do what we can to please our partners while pleasing ourselves. Everyone has certain tricks and actions that have worked in the past and we rely on them to work in the future. Having a knowledge of the human body and how it responds to certain stimulation adds to your sexual capabilities.
One of the things that can help you improve your performance and increase your partner’s pleasure is to know about erogenous zones.
The erogenous zones are areas of the human body that have heightened sensitivity so that when stimulated they produce a sexual response. When you know where someone is the most sensitive, it’s as if you have a map leading you right to the treasure, and by treasure, we mean orgasm!
Not everybody has the same reaction to every erogenous zone. What may drive your ex wild might not do anything for your current partner. But astrology can help you out by indicating which erogenous zone corresponds with each of the zodiac signs.
You need to know that what works on a Leo man could turn a Taurus man completely cold, or that a stimulating a combination of the erogenous zones really can take certain men over the top while others may find it distracting and unpleasant.
It’s important to keep in mind that everyone has different levels of sensitivity. Some men may just need a gentle touch, while others need more of a firm stroke. Paying attention to your partner’s responses and then acting on them is what will make you great at sex
If you start with the top of the head and work your way down, you'll be on the right track. An Aries man loves it when you put your hands in his hair and ruffle it playfully, gently massage his scalp, touch his forehead, his cheeks, and his face. Tug and nibble his ears, and while you're there, don't forget the area behind his ear — kiss there to really get him going.
If you've got a vampire fantasy, Taurus is your man because one of his most sensitive erogenous zones is his neck. Kiss his throat all around and gently bite his ear, but focus much of your energy on his neck. Don't worry about giving him a hickey; for him, it's not something to hide but something to show off proudly.
Geminis give new meaning to the term hand job since their most sensitive place on their body is their hands. Touch his hands, lick and suck his fingers (and do it as erotically as you dare), and be sure to stroke the inside of his palm to send shivers up his spine.
Man nipples are kind of a mystery. Why do they have them in the first place? Well, Cancer men solve this mystery: men's nipples are for pleasure, at least they are for Cancers. Pull gently on their nipples, put the whole nipple in your mouth, gently bite or twist them (not too forcefully). He's highly sensitive in the nipple region and you don't have to apply too much pressure to get a powerful response.
You may not know it but that friendly back rub you gave him turned him on big time. Leo's most sensitive erogenous zone is their back. Stand behind him and lean up against him, or have him face down and sit on his butt while you stroke his back. If you really want to get him going start from his shoulder blades and kiss your way down his spine.
Some people are sensitive about their stomachs; they feel insecure if they don't have rock hard abs. But Virgo men are different as they're erotically sensitive where their stomachs are concerned. Don't ignore his stomach; pay attention to it and show it that you crave the power of touch.
Butts are fun to spank, squeeze, and touch. And for a Libra, they are a body part of high sensitivity. Feel free to give your Libra man's behind a sensual massage; he'll love it and it will stimulate him for more.
Scorpio men are really into their elbows being touched. Psych! No, the truth is as you've probably suspected, Scorpio's most sensitive erogenous zone are their genitals. Anything you would do with any other part of the body (touch, kiss, lick, suck) do to his penis and balls. It won't take long to see if you've successfully stimulated him.
When you want a reaction from a Sagittarius, touch their thighs. If their legs are covered, grab the thigh and squeeze it over their clothes. If you can touch flesh, feathery scratches on the inner thigh will turn them on big time.
You'd think that Capricorn would have a very predictable erogenous zone, but you'd be wrong for their most sensitive erogenous zone is the back of their knees. That's the thing about Capricorns: you think you have them all figured out and they surprise you every time. They love being caressed at the back of the knees and if they don't see it coming, it will send them over the moon.
Second runner-up in the world's oddest erogenous zone is Aquarius with their ankles. They love having their ankles and their calves touched. Well, who are we to judge? You never know what body part has significance erotically for someone, even when that body part is their ankles.
It's not a far stretch from the ankles to the whole foot, but for Pisces, the foot is everything and a hugely sensitive erogenous zone. Is it a foot fetish when you want your own toes sucked and the upper and lower parts of your feet massaged? If you want to give the perfect gift for a Pisces, get them a gift certificate to a foot massage parlor or nail salon. They'll love being treated to a foot massage, pampering, and a scrub.