People Who Only Talk On The Phone When They’re In The Car Usually Have These 11 Reasons
The car can be the perfect place for private phone calls.
Ground Picture | Shutterstock Now that cell phones are a basic fact of life, there are many people who only want to talk on the phone when they are in the car, and for a wide variety of reasons. For example, some may feel their car is the only place they get privacy, or they may want to be in a controlled, non-disruptive environment.
It's important to remember the dangers that could potentially arise with making phone calls in the car, so if you do, it's essential (and legally required in most states) to make sure you do so hands-free. But for people who find their vehicle to be the only place where they want to have a conversation by phone, doing so safely saves them tons of time, energy, and more.
People who only talk on the phone when they’re in the car usually have these 11 reasons
1. Privacy
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Someone who only ever talks on the phone when they are in the car may be doing so for privacy reasons. Depending on the conversation, it may be a sensitive and emotional topic that a person wants to have without worrying about eavesdroppers or any interruptions.
The car provides the perfect space for private conversations since it is away from other people. It is a confidential space where a person can be as invested in the conversation as they need to be without distractions.
2. The car provides a buffer for difficult conversations
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Some people prefer to have difficult conversations on the phone in the car. Rather than facing a person who may be confrontational, having a conversation over the phone can keep it more controlled.
Being in the car while taking the phone call can also help keep the conversation controlled, as it provides an isolated space. If things get heated, being in a separate space from other people can help ensure that any heightened emotions are not projected onto people who have nothing to do with the conversation.
3. They can avoid disturbing others
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Someone may choose to have certain phone calls in the car rather than in their home in an attempt to avoid disturbing others. If their home is a shared living space, they may be trying to be considerate of their roommates or partner.
By stepping out to their car to take phone calls, they can be as loud as they want and fully engage in conversations without worrying about the impact on others.
4. They can escape noise
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Sometimes, a person taking a phone call in the car is less about distracting others and more about escaping the noise of others. Whether it's a conversation with a friend or for work, sometimes finding a quiet space is necessary.
Not everyone has a private office space in their home or their own room where they can make private phone calls without the interruption of other people. Trying to find a quiet location, like their car, may be the best space that they can use to escape the noise of their roommates.
5. It's a controlled environment
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A person’s car may act as a controlled environment where they prefer to take most of their phone calls. This allows them to control the privacy, noise, and be in an isolated space where others cannot get involved in the conversation or the potential reactions of the conversation.
For individuals who respond better to phone calls when they are able to answer them while they are in a space where they feel they can focus purely on the conversation at hand, being in a controlled environment like a car is the perfect spot for phone calls. They are able to control the setting and ensure they will have the right mindset for serious phone calls.
6. They have phone anxiety
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For someone who struggles with phone anxiety, being in a private environment can help to calm their nerves as they have a conversation on the phone. These individuals may choose to only talk on the phone while they are in the car.
Knowing that they will not be overheard helps them feel like there is less opportunity for them to be judged for their social skills. If they are already nervous about being judged by the person on the other end of the phone, the last thing they want is to also have to deal with people in the same room with them judging.
7. It's a safe space for vulnerability
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Some phone calls can cause people to respond emotionally. Not everyone feels comfortable expressing this vulnerability in public spaces, so they will choose a more private space, like a car, to take the phone call.
A car can act as a private sanctuary for someone where they know they can get as emotional as they please without anyone judging them for it. This also allows them to express themselves as genuinely as they can to the person on the phone because they will not be concerned with how they are being perceived by others around them.
8. They can make use of down time
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Someone who finds themselves having to kill time in the car may decide to only talk on the phone during these moments. In an attempt to also make the most of the time and try to be as productive as possible, they may use this time to get some important phone calls out of the way while they have some free time.
As long as making these phone calls takes place as the car is in park, this can be an efficient way for someone to multitask and be productive. It is also great for someone who struggles with sitting with nothing to do for long periods of time and needs something that will stimulate their brain socially.
9. They get better reception
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A person may tend to stay in an area that does not get the best cellular reception. In order to actually get better reception so that they can talk on the phone, they may need to drive to a different area.
If this is the case, a person may choose to only ever talk on the phone whenever they are in the car. While the car itself is not what provides the person with better reception, the ability to get somewhere else does make talking on the phone for them more possible.
10. It's a coping mechanism
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Being able to take on difficult and emotional conversations in an enclosed and private space may be a coping mechanism for some people. This might explain why they only talk on the phone when they are in the car.
Instead of being out in the open or in areas where there are a lot of people, some people prefer to have serious conversations in private. The car will act as the perfect spot for serious and vulnerable conversations to occur, and it allows the person to have a private space to cope with their emotions.
11. Social avoidance
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A person may only ever talk on the phone when in the car if they prefer to avoid being in social areas while on the phone. Being in the car gives them the privacy that they want, and it allows them to concentrate on the conversation they are having without having to deal with social distractions.
It is important to remember that when talking on the phone in the car, the person on the phone should not be driving while having serious and difficult conversations. This can cause distractions that could lead to serious accidents and injuries.
Kamryn Idol is a writer with a bachelor's degree in media and journalism who covers lifestyle, relationship, family, and wellness topics.
