"We Have No Chemistry": What Does He Mean?

What chemistry is composed of and how the lack of it can end your relationship.

By Kimberly Seltzer — Written on Mar 07, 2012

Has anyone ever broken up with you by giving you the line, "We have no chemistry"? Were you confused as to what that meant and how you were supposed to interpret that explanation? Chemistry And Finding The Right Man

In this video, Image Consultant, Matchmaker and YourTango Expert Kimberly Seltzer helps a reader whose boyfriend just broke up with her because "they had no chemistry." She wants to know what that means and how she can deal with it.

As Kimberly points out, there's no one formula for creating chemistry between two people, because if we knew it, everyone would be in love! But, as a matchmaker, there is a technique that she has developed to assess what attracts a couple to one another. She has her clients evaluate the emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual connection they have with their partner to determine how strong their chemistry is.

If one of these four areas is a lacking, then the chemistry in the relationship may be too weak to sustain a long-term relationship. Hear the rest of Kimberly's explanation of this concept by watching the video above.