If Your Wife Uses These 11 Phrases, She Has A Truly Beautiful Soul
Roman Samborskyi / Shutterstock There is a particular kind of woman whose kindness doesn't need to be announced because it never fails to show up in the smallest things she says. A wife with a truly beautiful soul tends to leave emotional fingerprints everywhere she goes. The way she speaks reveals how her beautiful mind naturally brings comfort and clarity to a relationship.
If you truly pay close attention to her, you'll begin to see that her most heartfelt qualities aren't hidden away. Instead, they're softly woven into the everyday words she often repeats, sometimes unaware of how special they really are.
If your wife uses these 11 phrases, she has a truly beautiful soul
1. 'It's okay, take your time'
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When your wife has a truly beautiful soul, she shows it in the little things, like letting you move through life without stress and at your own rhythm. A partner who nags you to hurry up or points out how slow you are, no matter what the situation is, can sometimes feel as though they are constantly waiting on you, leading to feelings of guilt.
Someone who never makes you feel this way and, in fact, makes you feel even more comfortable to take things slowly is someone you should cherish and keep close. You might be surprised at how rare it is for someone to have a good attitude when they are going at a different pace than you, whether it's about the relationship itself or when they want to leave for dinner. Remember that a healthy partner will always encourage you to do things on your own time.
2. 'How are you feeling about this?'
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Someone with a truly beautiful and caring soul doesn't exclude others in decision-making, especially their own partner. This is why, when your wife is asking how you feel about something, even if its something small like what color the walls should be in her study or if you think its a good idea to get another dog, she really wants to know your insight because it could help her learn more about your perspective and how your wants and needs show through it.
A study from last year found that relationship commitment is affected by two types of respect, including inclusion-based respect. Meaning that when someone feels included and their opinions are accepted, they feel more comfortable in that relationship, and this trust further strengthens their commitment to each other.
3. 'Let me know how I can help you'
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When a wife not only steps in to help when you ask but also offers her support when she notices you're struggling, it truly shows that she's attentive to your needs. It reflects her caring nature and her beautiful soul, where her first instinct is always to want to help.
When you support your partner during their times of need, it makes them feel truly appreciated and helps build trust. It also creates a stronger sense of security each time you offer help. There are also moments when a wife might step back and let her husband handle something on his own, especially when she knows he doesn't really need help, to encourage independence.
4. 'I see how hard you're trying'
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A wife can show her husband she truly cares by offering encouraging words that inspire him to keep going. For instance, she might tell him how much she appreciates his efforts and how her support means the world to her. When she takes the time to express this through her actions as well, it truly reflects her beautiful soul.
Taking a moment to recognize not just his progress but also the growth of their relationship helps strengthen their emotional bond. Additionally, celebrating each other's hard work reminds both partners that their effort and dedication are truly meaningful.
5. 'I'm truly proud of you'
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Of course, it's natural for anyone in a relationship to want to let their partner know how loved and appreciated they are. Saying you're proud of them only adds to those feelings. But a wife with a truly beautiful soul never leaves you questioning if anyone believes in you; she will always be your biggest cheerleader, encouraging you every step of the way, not just one.
Some people grew up without anyone telling them they were proud of their accomplishments. No one to hang up their paintings on the fridge or show off their graduations on Facebook. So when they hear their partner say that they're proud of them, they're healing a significant part of their inner child.
6. 'Let's find a solution together'
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A wonderful wife with a kind and beautiful soul will always want to work through any issues with her lifelong partner, because she values his opinion and believes that together, they form a stronger team than they do alone. To her, every obstacle is just another opportunity to grow and learn from each other.
Additionally, many people in relationships tend to avoid addressing problems and prefer to wait for them to resolve on their own, which isn't the healthiest approach for a relationship. Open communication is key to building trust and understanding.
7. 'I love seeing you happy'
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There's truly nothing like the warmth of knowing someone enjoys seeing you happy, whether it's through the lovely dates you share, the way you communicate, or how they treat you. It’s such a comforting and uplifting feeling to hear that they thrive on your happiness. When a wife says this phrase to her husband, it reveals her truly beautiful soul.
This phrase quietly reveals that your joy genuinely adds to her own. She takes pride in being part of the reason you smile and enjoy yourself. Her love is rooted in the type of partnership where both people are there to see each other flourish and live their best lives.
8. 'I'm here for anything'
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Sometimes, there are things in people's lives that they think might be too much for their significant other to see or help them with. A wife who truly loves her husband and has a beautiful soul would never say no to something her husband vocalizes he needs help with. She is there with him through thick and thin, and she won't let him ever question that.
It's never a good feeling when you can feel the person you love start to slowly struggle quietly, letting them know that you're here for them for anything can feel like a weight lifted off their shoulders. Sometimes all they need is reassurance that they're not navigating life alone.
9. 'Let me handle this, you deserve to rest'
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Giving your partner the rest they need and truly deserve shows how much you care and love them. A wife with a beautiful soul might even offer to finish some of his remaining tasks so he can take a little break and recharge. Showing appreciation in this way promotes understanding.
This connects to the earlier phrase, "I see how hard you're trying." When you let your partner know their efforts are noticed, it helps ease any worries they might have that their hard work is going unseen. If you're lucky, your wife might pull out the best snack plate you've ever seen with your favorite drink on the side as a sign of appreciation after working on the yard all morning.
10. 'I'm all ears, spill'
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Not only will a wife with a loving soul want to talk to her husband and engage in open conversations but she will also want him to yap about anything he wants without interjecting or changing the topic. Allowing the person you love to talk when they want to will help them feel comfortable with you and never have a fear that they said too much or that they're annoying you.
One of the worst feelings in a toxic relationship is feeling as if you're bothering them or even wasting their time when you start talking for too long or start to get really into a topic when the other isn't. In a loving relationship, the other person will always want to hear their partner speak about something they're truly passionate about.
11. 'I love who you're becoming'
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A wife with a beautiful soul will genuinely care for the growth of her husband, whether it was with or without her help. She will always motivate him in both his personal and professional endeavours because she wants to see him reach his full potential. To love someone is to want to them to shine on their own.
Unfortunately, there are some couples where one partner wishes the other to stay the same as when they first met because they're too emotionally immature to want change. They might also fear that the other person will develop into someone who recognizes they're being held back.
Being a thoughtful wife with a truly beautiful soul not only means saying these phrases to encourage growth in the relationship, but also taking action that reflects the same thing. To many people, words are just that, words, so they may need to see actual encouragement through actions.
Doreen Albuerne is a writer with a bachelor's degree in journalism, covering relationships, mental health, and lifestyle topics.
