People Who Truly Respect Single Parents Usually Know Better Than To Say 11 Cringey Phrases
annastills | Canva Being a single parent is a tough job. Single moms and dads have to take on all the tasks of a two-parent household — cooking, carpooling, cleaning, etc. — without any extra help.
Their job is only made more difficult when they are forced to endure a series of somewhat ignorant comments from strangers and peers. If you want to truly respect a single parent, try refraining from some of these cringey phrases.
People who truly respect single parents usually don't use any of these phrases:
1. 'Baby daddy' or 'baby mama'
Dad or Mom means the same thing, and doesn't sound so dismissive.
2. 'I can relate, my partner travels for work all the time'
Sorry, folks, but that's not the same thing.
3. 'Did you try to make it work?'
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No. I called the divorce attorney after our first fight over dirty dishes.
4. 'Your poor kids have to grow up without a positive male role model'
Between their grandfathers, uncles, teachers, and their father, I think they'll be okay.
5. 'It's a shame; kids need both their parents'
Would you say that to a single parent whose partner passed away?
6. 'It must be nice to get a break from the kids now and then'
You're right. It's so nice to hear my kids cry because they're sick of being shuttled between houses every week.
7. 'You're so lucky you don't have a partner to fight with'
Believe it or not, divorced and estranged couples can still fight.
8. 'Your kids are going to have some serious relationship issues'
Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't see the crystal ball in your hands. Please, tell me more about my children's futures.
9. 'Just make sure you don't have another kid'
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You too! I wouldn't want anyone else inheriting your lack of class.
10. 'How do you afford it?'
By working my tush off every day of the week!
11. 'Oh, come on, being a single parent isn't that hard'
Really? Would you like to try it?
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