How To Kiss A Woman So She'll Beg You To Never Stop

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Do you know where to kiss a girl to turn her on to the point where she wants you with hunger and urgency that makes your lovemaking sublime?

When you and your lover dissolve into one being — lips locked, tongues entwined, bodies wrapped in rapture — time melts, passion flares, and the more you kiss, the more turned on you both get...

That's some mighty fine kissing!

Are you having hot, passionate make-out sessions with the woman you love? Is she melting in your arms?

According to Dr. Helen Fisher, a leading authority on love and attraction, “Kissing is a mechanism for mate choice and mate assessment ... There’s evidence that saliva has testosterone in it, and there’s also evidence that men like sloppier kisses with more open mouth ... That suggests to me that they are unconsciously trying to transfer testosterone to trigger the sex drive in women.”​

Psychologist Gordon Gallup elaborates further, pointing out that women and men kiss for different reasons.

“Males tend to kiss as a means of gaining sexual favors, or as a means of affecting reconciliation,” says Gallup. “Females kiss more as a mate-assessment device.”

Basically, she kisses you to collect information about who you are and whether or not you are suitable for her as a match. He kisses you to get you excited and woo you into bed.

In addition, both men and women kiss in order to become emotionally closer to their partners.

Where To Kiss A Girl To Turn Her On

Kiss her forehead, eyelids, neck, cheeks, and cleavage before kissing her lips.

You should kiss her in those areas because it shows her that you respect her and that you have an abiding love for her. The neck and cleavage are erogenous zones — especially the neck where there are nerve endings that make these areas sensitive and feel good to the touch. 

Other places you can kiss her that will turn her on besides her lips are her ears, nape of her neck, and her nipples.

Start on the outside periphery of her body instead of zeroing in on her mouth first. You should kiss her in those places because those three areas are very sensitive to the touch.

Those three areas are also erogenous zones as there are super-sensitive nerve endings in those areas and they will send sensations down her body. 

When you kiss her lips, start with a sweet series of brief kisses.

Kiss her there because it'll make her want more before you give her more. The lips are the most exposed erogenous zone and therefore pack a lot of sensitive nerve ending that sends signals to our brain and makes you feel amazing.

If you want to use your tongue and do some french kissing this will also turn her on a lot as the tongue is very sensitive as well. 

Move from her lips back to her neck, cheeks, and forehead — then back to her lips.

By kissing her in this order in those places she will be quivering with anticipation as you move through very sensitive erogenous areas. 

Kiss her for the sheer joy of all that sensation on your lips, tongue, mouth, face, hands, body. 

Be very expansive and joyful. Don’t have an agenda for getting more than kisses. Don’t kiss her to get sex.

Kissing her down her body will send shivers down her spine and if she lets you, the clitoris is a very sensitive erogenous zone to kiss her and perform oral sex as there are 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris alone.

Lay her down with your body above her. Hold her down lightly as you kiss her hands.

Give her the feeling that you are dominating her while making it implicit that she is always in control and you will never hurt her. You can kiss her hands and fingers as these areas feel good when you lick or suck them as they are also erogenous zones. She can also get an idea of how good you are with your mouth when you kiss her like that. 

Move her body for her and grab her butt and breasts as you kiss her stomach and go down her chest.

This will turn her on right away because she will get very excited for you and will want you more. The stomach is also an erogenous area so take control of her body by kissing her there and down her chest and reward her for letting go into rapture.

Use a wide variety of kisses as you kiss her neck especially the side and the back of her neck.

You can kiss, nibble, and lick her neck taking time exploring, enjoying, and delighting her. This area is the best erogenous zone because they are always an immediate turn on her and provides her with some sexual pleasure. 

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What Turns A Woman On During Kissing

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1. Good hygiene.

A woman loves fresh breath so make sure to brush your teeth for her. If it’s been longer than six months, schedule your dental hygienist appointment today. 

If your mouth tastes good she'll like that, so make sure to limit eating strong-odored foods like onion and garlic.

2. A well-groomed partner.

Shave your face very close and smooth. (Change your blade!)

Rub organic olive oil onto your face after shaving to soften your skin and stubble. Then wipe it off with a dry towel.

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3. A welcoming atmosphere.

Find a comfortable spot to make out. Check the temperature, lighting, and music.

4. Good kissing techniques.

Approach her slowly for a kiss. Hold her in your arms first and let your heartbeats synchronize.

Warm her up slowly and luxuriously. If you need to set a timer if you have a hard stop, set it and forget it. Go under into unbounded pleasure until the dinger dings.

Take it slowly and softly. Make your lips soft, full, and lush so they feel sensual. Slide your lips across hers.

Do not hurry. Be in the moment and feel every sensation.

Take breaks. Breathe with each other deeply. Look into her eyes and connect with her.

Mirror her actions and pace. Notice how she kisses you and make sure to kiss her back in the same ways to see how she responds.

5. Verbal appreciation.

Tell her how sexy and beautiful she is. Let her talk. Let her get anything she needs to say out first so that she can surrender to the hot make-out session with you.

Show her your desire for her. Growl. Go, “Mmmmmmm ...” Make sounds that show her how much you are enjoying being with her.

Women need to hear your approval. This will allow her to relax and get even more turned on.

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Susan Bratton is a trusted hot sex advisor to millions of men who crave more passionate sex. Her simple little e-book, "The Passion Patch: One Place To Touch Her To Arouse Her In 30 Seconds Flat" is available for you to download now.

This article was originally published at Personal Life Media. Reprinted with permission from the author.