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5 Ways To Make Him Come FAST When Giving A BJ (So You're Not Down There All Day)

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Ladies, you can enjoy giving BJs again.

Men never want to hear the words “blowjob" and "efficient” together in one sentence. But, honestly guys, we know some of you never get one. So, these blowjob tips are for those women who just hate to give them.

At our home parties in the Bay Area, we hear from women who do not give blowjobs because they do not like the way the penis and balls smell or taste. We hear from women who are worried about “swallowing.” We hear women complain that it takes too long and their jaw gets tired. We hear it all!

So, here are our five tips for making a blowjob better. Gentlemen, if it came down to no blowjob or an efficient one, you would choose the efficient kind, right?

1. Get him worked up.

Start the blowjob off early in the day by texting or emailing him that you are going to give him one. The more anticipation you can build, the more excited he is going to be that night.

2. Have him shower with you.

If you really do not like the way the penis smells, get him in the shower first or even shower with him. I realize if you have small kids that this isn’t a possible reality, so send him in there to make everything nice and clean. 

3. Try flavored condoms.


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For those of you who are skittish about ejaculation, you can also use a flavored condom and give a “strawberry” or “coconut” blowjob. The flavored condoms taste good. I know you are thinking how gross condoms taste, and normally that is true. But the flavored condoms are designed specifically for oral sex.

4. Use a toy on his testicles.

Using a small vibrator on the testicles or under the testicles can also help to make the blowjob very efficient. You can incorporate a smallish vibrator and apply light pressure to the testicles while you go down on him. Giving someone oral sex is the highest compliment you can possibly pay someone.

5. Massage his "spot."

The “he” spot can be massaged gently to make a blowjob great, but we realize this is not for everyone. Massaging the “he” spot requires one finger inside of the anus and some people are just not going to ever do that. But when we talk to men, we hear them say all the time that having a “he” spot orgasm is euphoric and takes them back to their first orgasm.

This is really meant for the couples who rarely partake in this activity and for women who are extremely weary of giving oral sex to their husband or boyfriend. We hope it helps.

 

This article was originally published at Bliss-Radio. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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