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Sometimes you're ready for more.
By Mindy Song — Written on Jan 08, 2018
Every now and then, you share your sex story and someone says, "But you could be having even better sex!"
But then they seldom go into the nitty-gritty of how you can actually explore your deepest desires and fantasies.
This brings us to our topic today: The top 5 hottest sex positions for FFM threesomes.
3somer, the largest threesome app, has just surveyed its users about the sex positions they are using during a threesome. Among those sex positions, they identified the 5 most popular ones.
If you've followed our previous posts, you can tell that we are such huge fans of threesome sex. But what you may not be able to tell is that the reason for our attraction to the Holy Grail of sex, goes beyond the bragging rights it promises — the possible sexual positions that could arise from a threesome are quite the inspiration.
Here are 5 of our favorite positions, how you can pull each one off for the ultimate threesome experience, as well as why you should do each one.
(Note: These positions are best for FFM threesomes but hey, nobody says you shouldn’t try with other threesome variations.)
1. 69 Plus 1
How it’s done: Have the first woman lying on her back, then the second woman would get on top — just like the standard 69 position. This way, each woman’s head is positioned between the other woman’s legs.
Then the guy penetrates either one of them from behind.
Why it’s hot: The 69-plus-one position requires juggling and balance, but with so many body parts crammed in one place, it’s a really hot position for exploring your threesome fantasies.
If you can’t find a balance in the traditional 69 position, have everyone rotate so that your sides rest on the bed. In this position, the two women can focus on exploring each other’s bodies. The male can choose to watch for a while or join in with his fingers.
2. The Double Cowgirl
How it’s done: In this position, the guy has to lie on his back and place a pillow under his head. One of the two women straddles him, with her head facing his head while working his penis. Meanwhile, the second woman would kneel over his face, with her head pointing towards the guy’s feet.
As the guy performs oral on the second woman, both women can get intimate while on top of the guy seeing as they are facing each other.
Why it’s hot: This position brings everyone together. Both women would be able to touch and kiss each other in this position and even have the option of turning around to face the other direction if they crave simulation from a different angle.
This can also help if you get jealous watching your third wheel on your boyfriend. You simply just turn around and avoid contact! However, if a threesome makes you uncomfortable at any point, you should either voice your opinion or put a stop to it!
3. The Double Dip
How it’s done: In the Double Dip position, one of the two women would lay on top of the other — just like in the missionary position.
The man would crouch between their legs and alternate between penetrating each woman.
Why it’s hot: This position gives the ladies ample opportunity to focus and explore each other’s body. The man is free to watch and jump in at will to heighten the sexual pleasure. This position is also great for non-penetrative threesomes as the guy can finger both women at the same time.
4. The Doggy Deluxe
How it’s done: The Doggy Deluxe style sees the man partner with one of the women in doggy style. Underneath all the action, the second woman would lay on her back in front of the doggy style couple. The woman getting penetrated would perform oral sex on the other woman lying on her back.
Why it’s hot: If you are a fan of oral sex, this one would be a favorite threesome position for you. Each thrust from your boyfriend pushes you against the third wheel’s clitoris. It is also easy to alternate position as you can take turns between getting penetrated and receiving head!
5. Tag Team
How it’s done: The tag team position is just as the name suggests. One of the two women would lie on her back, close to the edge of the bed. In this position, her legs would be hanging over the edge, giving the man some space to kneel between her legs and penetrate her. Then the second woman would sit on the first woman’s face for oral sex.
Why it’s hot: This is yet another favorite for fans of oral sex. In this position, you can be the center of attention while still exploring your desire for oral sex. The third wheel is not left out as she can lean forward and kiss your man — it's really a win-win position.
Now, it’s time to try these positions and tell us what you think! Enjoy.
Mindy Song is a sex educator, writer, and part-time counselor for a threesome app.
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