Dating/Being Single Support

Years in Practice

1-3 years


Santa Monica CA 90405 - United States



Additional Expertise

Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

The slower you go, the faster you'll get there.

The most important relationship one can have in their lives is with themselves.

"You complete me..." Blah, blah, blah. YOU complete you, and because of that, you attract the right partner into your life.

About Christian Anderson

The 21st Century dating landscape features female CEO’s and stay at home dads. How does today’s single navigate this brave new world? Enter Christian Anderson, a dating and relationship strategist who simplifies the dating landscape by providing his clients the tools to do this. Christian has studied and worked with some of the nation’s top relationship experts. He combines this experience with several years of working in the night club industry. Over the past decade, he has studied the art of attraction and dating, and saw what worked to attract a healthy relationship and what worked to attract a casual relationship. During this time, he also personally made a shift from a man looking for casual dating to one ready and prepared for a significant relationship. The combination of his own journey coupled with his own research, he has developed a system that has helped numerous women attract a healthy and relationship ready man into their lives. Christian brings a charm and honesty to his work which helps women understand the masculine psyche and make effective dating decisions to attract the love of their life. Being raised by strong, smart, and successful women, gave Christian a tremendous respect for women as well as a desire to guide them to success in their romantic pursuits. Throughout his own dating life, he has gained awareness of the mistakes that some women unwittingly make that can deter that potential partner from entering their lives. Conversely, he knows behaviors women can easily employ that draws a good man closer and closer. In a time when the traditional roles for men and women have been turned upside down, he has created an effective philosophy which clarifies and simplifies the courting process. His method is based on a four pillar system of Self Care, Attracting, Dating, and Committing. Most importantly, he works with clients to ensure that they are in a loving relationship with themselves before beginning the dating process: “Without a healthy vision of yourself, how can you attract a healthy partner?” From that point on he guides them in optimizing and embracing their unique Attraction Factor, establishing a confident and conscientious dating skill set. Finally, he helps pave the way to a healthy committed relationship. He does this by developing the magical 3 C’s: chemistry, communication, and compatibility. Christian is a frequent guest on radio shows, web series, and TV shows. Learn more at his coaching program’s website: www.letstalkdatingonline.com.

Christian Anderson Success Stories

Brought Back my Freedom

Women seeking a relationship

    “I believe all women, at least one time in their lives, have been carrying emotional baggage from past relationships or for future ‘I want him to be my boyfriend’ kind of men…. I believe the greatest achievement of mine, from the time we first started working together with Christian, is the fact that back then I was guessing more and knowing less…. now I know more and guess less in my life!more

    My goal is to be happy, every moment… for now and the future. Having a man in my life is merely about someone who I would allow to share my happiness with! The road might take me down to many paths… some of them leading to dead ends, some of them leading to other paths…. but I’ve come to realize that…it’s not about how the road ends, it’s all about what you experience in your trip…

    Christian provided the right questions and I provided the courage of implementation and learning. Yes..! It takes openness and willingness to change and try new things, no matter how minor or important they are to you. Sometimes I must admit I wasn’t really sure how this was going to help me find what I was looking for…. but I was convinced that if I would have stayed where I was, I had zero chances to find it as opposed to trying something different no matter how difficult or uncomfortable it felt….

    With Christian, I discovered that I’m no longer afraid to surrender to the unknown…. and that feeling is…freedom from everything that has been holding me back…

    Thanks coach, this journey feels amazing and is definitely one of a kind!!!”

-Vicky,  Greece

Changed my Dating Life

Women seeking a relationship

    “Dating used to be tough. I used to over analyze everything. Then Christian made me realize how simple guys are. I realized what I was doing wrong and with the help of Christian I was able to change my life, well at least the dating part, around! Thanks xoxoxoxoxo”more

- Rhonda S. Los Angeles

"Angels Work Through Christian"

Women seeking a relationship

“Angels work through Christian and anyone fortunate to receive his advise will be blessed. Christian gave me solid advise while I was dating a guy who was pressuring me to have sex with him. I knew I wanted to be in a relationship, but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be with this guy so I was still feeling our relationship out before we took it to the next level…. After listening to Christian, and putting his principals in to play, I learned soon after that the man I was dating was NOT “boyfriend” material. His advise saved me from getting into a really bad situation with a guy I wasn’t even into in the first place! Dating is so tough, especially when you’re looking for a long term relationship, and Christian has the wisdom to steer any lonely heart into the right direction of everlasting love.”more

-Sara W. San Diego

Changed My Life

Women seeking a relationship

“I first contacted Christian when the guy I was dating started to pull away. After listening to my story, Christian gave me a whole new approach to the situation. He told me that this guy was “renting the girlfriend” by acting like my boyfriend when he wanted and then disappearing when he was “busy”, that I should stop being so available / nice to him and that I should let him pursue me. I was pretty impressed by Christian’s approach as it totally made sense and none of my friends or even myself thought about that earlier.more

Then, a few months later, I contacted Christian again to do the SPARK package on 30 days. We focused on ATTRACT as my goals for this journey were to become more approachable and to be able to go talk and flirt with any guy I would be interested in. On the first session, Christian gave me a set of tools to develop and use my feminine energy to attract men. We also talk about the kind of guy I want and where I could find him. Then we went together in public places so I could practice on strangers. This definitely gave me more confidence to go talk to guys. I kept practicing talking to strangers in between the sessions and after only 10 days I thought “Christian changed my life!”: guys were coming to talk directly to me and not to my friends, I was flirting with men and getting some numbers and even my best friend was amazed about how more confident and more approachable I became in only a few weeks!

This month of coaching with Christian has been a great experience and I’m definitely going to keep using what I’ve learned in order to find the guy I want.”

Adeline B., San Francisco

Found the Love of Her Life

Women seeking a relationship

UPDATE: Farrah's boyfriend recently proposed and they are engaged to be married in 2013!more

“Christian is simply amazing. His theories on feminine/masculine energy are right on. I usually have a tough time letting go and allowing the man to take care of me and be, well, the man. So, when I met this guy that I really liked (who I’m still dating), I asked Christian for some pointers. He pointed out some examples of what I was doing wrong, and how I could change my habits in order to maximize on my potential (by letting the guy take the lead without having to give up my strong, independent side). Sure enough, within two weeks of dating, my guy tells me, verbatim (without knowing any of the things that I just mentioned), “I love that you let me be the man and take the lead.” He explained that the reason he likes it is because he knows that I don’t NEED him to take the lead or take care of me, and that I’m independent enough to manage on my own, but that I ALLOW him to do so. At that point, I thought, “Christian is a genius!”

-Farrah, Los Angeles

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