Years in Practice

6-10 years


Calgary AB T2W 3Z2 - Canada



Additional Expertise

Energy Healer, Family Coach, Marriage Coach, Spiritual Healer, Wellness Coach

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

“We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started, and know the place for the first time” ~ T.S. Eliot

About Kei Lam

Best-selling author Kei K Lam (aka Kei Kay) is founder of the Compassion-Activation healing technique. She is a Relationship Healer, helping sensitive, spiritually-open moms with husband issues to restore peace in their life, so that their children can grow up in a loving home environment with confident, happy parents to model after.

My career began as a geophysicist in a large corporation. I had a B.Sc in Geology and Physics and an M.Sc in Operations Research (engineering). After eight years at my job I felt unfulfilled, moved on to start my own business building condominium townhomes.

Real estate development launched me onto a major learning curve. All the most difficult issues had to do with human relationships. From playing politics for permit approval, to price negotiations, quality control with subtrades, managing customer expectations… and worst of all, the developing tension with my husband as a result of this career change.

These daily battles piled up inside of me. Fifteen years later I came down with breast cancer.

Coming from an upbringing that focused on science, I wasn’t prepared to deal with people who could twist hard facts around to suit themselves conveniently. I didn’t grow up with role models to be an effective negotiator. English wasn’t even my first language.

Being authentic was a quality I refused to give up. I wanted to accommodate other people, but I didn’t want to compromise. I needed to be me.

So I spent years improving my knowledge on relating. In the process, I learned lots about who I am and why I am here on Earth. The more I knew about myself, the easier it became to relate to others. The more compassion I gave to myself, the easier it became to understand and accept others.

These days I like to focus on working with mothers because of their vital role in shaping the future of our world. Our future generation depends on mother while in her womb for physical and emotional foundation, as well as a role model for life. The more I strived to improve myself, the more I appreciated the significance of mothering.

And happy relationship is where it all begins. A happy marriage feeds emotional fulfillment to a mother, a contented cheerful mother leads to a healthy confidant child, who will build a constructive peaceful society.

In 2011 I was blessed with a special divine energy gift which I named Activation. The gentle yet powerful energy opens doors to access hidden potential for my clients, including peace and happiness in relationship. Activation is now an integral part of my healing technique.

I am a best-selling author of Answering The Call, describing my journey to change my outer reality by changing myself. I am also a Certified Zhi Neng Herb Practitioner, Certified Soul Coach, Certified Past Life Coach, Certified Compassion Key Master Practitioner, and a Psychosomatic Practitioner.

Now it’s your turn to tell me a bit about you! Please say hello at keikay@superintelligencewellness.com .

Kei Lam Success Stories

Finally got her husband's support

Women dealing with stress

Jill (not her real name) found me a year after her cancer treatment.  She had 4 kids, did all the housework, looked after her aging parents, AND went to work full time.  Her husband even had an affair at one point.  When she came to me, his affair was over, her cancer was over, but she was still very stressed.  She felt very unfulfilled because she hated her job.  It was very demanding and not rewarding, but her husband wouldn't agree to her leaving it.  He didn't believe that they would make enough money if she went into her own business.  more

At the beginning of our third session, she told me that her husband called her at work that Monday morning,"I saw you dragging yourself off to work this morning.  How are you feeling? ... What about that business you wanted to start?" She was shocked!  She said that was the first time he had ever mentioned that he would support her dream. 

Our work on her opened the door for her husband to come in to her again emotionally... feel her, empathize with her, connect with her, support her.

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