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If He Really Wants Commitment, He'll Do These 3 Things

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How To Know If A Man Is Ready To Commit

If you're wondering if the man you're with is serious, he's probably not. It's really not a mystery when you're with the right man.

Men who want a commitment with you are easy to spot. They are straight forward and they know what they want. If you're still wondering or getting mixed signals here are 3 things to look for:

1. He keeps his agreements.


He calls when he says he's going to call. He takes you out when he says he going to take you out.

Real men keep their agreements. They aren't afraid of commitment. It's what makes them better men. They don't want to lose you and they value you.

Passive aggressive non-committal men make agreements, they just don't keep them. In the DVD Chemistry To Commitment I go over the 7 agreements men make when they want to commit.

2. He makes time for you.


I work with very successful men, all of whom have no time. They don't have time, they make time. They make you a priority because they value being in a relationship. Even when they are extremely busy, they make time to connect with you.

3. He has a plan.


This separates the men from the boys. If a man only talks about how he feels (i.e. how much he loves you, how amazing it feels to be with you, how much fun it is being with you), he's just doing what feels good and is not committed to you.

Real men take responsibility. This is the most important thing I want to share with you. A real man has a plan for the both of you and he tells you what it is.

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