How To Use A Vibrator On Your Clitoris When Masturbating (For The Best Female Orgasm)
Enjoy creative ideas using your vibrator.
Duncan Shaffer via Unsplash You may have used a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris during female masturbation but you may be missing out on creative ways to use vibrators, as well as stumble into some common mistakes.
These days, with the vast amount of vibrators available, it can be difficult to know which type to choose, let alone know which sex toys are right for you and/or your lover.
Your sexual health is just as important as your physical, mental, and emotional health. So, the first and most important tip in choosing a sex toy such as a vibrator is making sure that it does not contain harmful toxins in them such as phthalates.
And once you've reviewed how to choose the right clitoral vibrator for you or your lover, you can turn your attention to learning how to use a vibrator and maximize your pleasure with one.
The most common types of clitoral stimulators these days are traditional vibrators, estim vibrators, and air pulse stimulators — you can get downright creative with how you use them, either solo or with a partner, and achieve a clitoral orgasm.
The most common female masturbation techniques are to use them directly on the clitoris or use a variety of techniques around the clitoris through manual patterns or patterns that are offered on a more advanced vibrator.
For increased stimulation, you can pull the hood of the clitoris back for direct stimulation and use it directly on top or to the side of the clitoris. You can also keep the clitoral hood in place and use the vibrator over it to decrease intensity. Most vibrators have multiple speeds so often the intensity levels will be adjustable.
When shopping for a vibrator, keep in mind that the vibrator power ratings often refer to the maximum level of power that vibrator can offer so even an adjustable speed vibrator is going to have a maximum power level that it can reach.
That means if you do not want a lot of power but the vibrator has adjustable speeds you can simply use a lower speed but if a vibrator has a maximum rating on power that is not that strong you are not going to get more than that level of power.
Thus, if you like power or even if you do not choose a vibrator that has a strong power setting that is adjustable as it will meet your needs regardless of your preferences.
Another way to stimulate using a clitoral vibrator is by using it on other erogenous zones of the body before or in between stimulating the clitoris such as the nipples and outer and inner labia (lips).
While using a clitoral vibe, you can either pleasure the clitoris with constant stimulation or you can also move it back and forth over the inner labia, vaginal opening and back to the clitoris. This can intensify an orgasm as well as keeping one from getting overstimulated or desensitized.
But, if you do not have a clitoral vibrator but you have a G-spot vibrator, vibrating rings, and/or dual vibrators, you can hold those over the clitoris and use them to stimulate, as well.
Don't be shy about using various types of vibrators on the clitoris.
Additionally, you can use dual motor vibrators that are able to stimulate both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time and even find triple stimulating vibrators that stimulate the clitoris, G-spot, and anus all at the same time.
There are also vibrators that can be worn during sex or used remotely with customization features via Bluetooth so the options are quite vast.
Are you having difficulty climaxing due to desensitization?
It can be a bummer when you can't orgasm because you've gotten used to the stimulation your vibrator is providing. In some cases, you can even get downright numb from them and this is common especially when you have used one for a while.
So, how does one avoid this or tackle this type of desensitization so you can achieve a clitoral orgasm?
There are 3 ways to use vibrators on your clitoris for the best results during masturbation.
1. Vary your stimulation
Take the vibrator off your clitoris and move it around the inner labia and then go back to the clitoris to keep from getting overstimulated or desensitized.
You can also use a vibrator that has different pattern settings that will cycle through pulsing and waves that will help keep you from becoming over-stimulated or desensitized as well.
2. Use an air pulse stimulator
Air Pulse Simulators are not vibrators but are designed to provide direct stimulation to the clitoris.
They typically do not cause the numbing that prolonged vibrator use can sometimes cause so you can use them instead of a vibrator or even after becoming desensitized by a vibrator to help reach climax.
3. Use lubricant
Using a vibrator without lubricant can cause too much friction so using a dab of lubricant can help keep the friction levels down that sometimes contribute to overstimulation or desensitization.
Now that you know about these clever ways to maximize pleasure to the clitoris, you can enjoy and celebrate it! This is an amazing and beautiful gift of sexual pleasure for yourself and your partner!
Lisa Lawless is the founder and C.E.O. of Holistic Wisdom, Inc. which is a leading sexual wellness company that provides education, resources and products to both consumers and professionals via NAASAS.org.