6 Hot Tips That'll Get You (And Your Profile) Noticed By GOOD Men

It's easier than you might think.

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Looking for passionate red-hot love online? Spicing up your dating profile is the way to go! If you want to meet a gentleman who will touch the small of your back when you're walking in the door, then make your online profile rock!

Your pictures are important, but so are other factors if you want to attract good men. While you spend a cold, lonely night alone because your profile won't attract the right guy, you need to upgrade your screen name. Then, you can cozy up with a compatible match.


Online profile research duo Khalid Khan and Sameer Chaudhry have read up on 3,938 studies in behavioral science, psychology, and sociology journals that delve into online dating. They sorted through them and came up with the best tips to make online dating a success. 

Here are some epic online dating tips:

1. Your screen name is the FIRST thing anyone will see.

Change your screen name to moonlight or abaloneflirt and it will help you have online dating success. The team found that screen names in the beginning of the alphabet get more clicks. The right kind of screen name increases your chance to find love. Search engines file and compile words alphabetically. So go for a name that starts with A-M. 


2. Stay away from negative words. 

Tiny, hater, and other negative words are like a trip to the garbage dump. Don't leave a bad taste in his mouth before you even get to the first wink or message. This goes for your screen name, headline, and description. Negative words are a total turnoff.

3. Instead, use flirty words. 

A crew of researchers studied the word bubbles on Plenty of Fish. These 5 words found in online dating profiles correlate with people leaving the site because they are now in a relationship: love, time, life, friend, music. There's no need to check the dictionary for these words. Click the keys and talk about your friends, what you DO love, stories about your life, and your favorite live music festivals. People like stories from the soul in your profile.


4. Take time to make your headline sparkle like 1000 diamonds. 

Make your online profile funny, different, and clever. It's important to grab their attention from the beginning. "If you can get your potential date to stop and think about your headline message and increase the exposure time to your primary photo, this will increase their liking of you." says Khan.

5. Wear an LRD, not LBD. 

If you are a woman and want to make him go roar, get out your little red dress. Men perceive women who wear red as more sexually receptive (even if you DO make him wait). Catch his eye with the right color. You know the kind of woman who walks into a party with a sexy red dress that turns every man’s head in the room. That's you! Get your sexy on with the hottest shade. Rouge, cherry, auburn, merlot, crimson ... any red will do even if it's just a hint.


6. Keep your wording simple.

Talk about the burgeoning relationship on the horizon or that you are ready to start a brood are uncommon words you need to stay away from. Keep your vocabulary passionate and simple so nobody has to go grab a dictionary to know what you're saying. Don't have a cumbrous, forlorn profile that garners a glowering look from possible romantic partners. Say what?

Men don't fall in love with a woman because she is smarter than him. Want to know how to make a guy fall in love with you? Let him get to know you and give him a safe space to contact you first. That's a good start.


Create your profile as if you were having a passionate conversation with someone. Make it juicy, sweet, descriptive, and sexy. These are a few tips that will send you in the right direction to have the kind of relationship you want. Love is in the air and if you use the tools you need to let romance find you, your single life will overflow with more fun and excitement than you can imagine.

Dina Z Colada is a dating coach and author who resides in West Virginia. If you like her tips, check out Dina's new e-book: The Woman He Dreams About: 21 Sizzling Online Picture Tips That He Can't Live Without. You Flirt, He Clicks. 

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