Love, Self

17 Things That Make Men Irresistible To The Ladies

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Fellas, there's no doubt that trying to figure out what women really want can seem like a pretty daunting charge. But if we're being honest, it actually really isn't that HARD once you get to know the telltale signs. If you're really serious about scoring that first and second date, you may want to follow these surefire points. Seriously, these tips will turn you into a bona fide stud!

1. It's all about presence.

It really doesn't matter what you look like; you can still become a lady magnet! Stop being afraid of approaching women that you're interested in. After all, what do you have to lose? If you really think about it, you have EVERYTHING to gain so take a risk and just go for it!

2. Be confident!

Women are attracted to men who are conscious of the dynamics of their personality. Confident men are irresistible! Seriously, being charismatic can take you far. You just have to remember to shake off your nerves and put your best foot forward.

3. You need to actually LISTEN when she speaks—So stop interrupting!

This may sound mundane but it's so, so true. You have to listen to women in a way that lets them know you actually heard them. Don't interrupt and be an active listener. Instead of automatically jumping in, rephrase what you just heard.

4. Stop moaning about your life!

Guys, this may be one of the most important points. Give up whining and moaning about your life and women. Instead, think about all of the positive things going on in your life. She will definitely respond to that softer (and less negative) side of you.

5. Put yourself out there.

Go for what you want and when you think you have tried it all, try something else. You have to learn to live outside your comfort zone long enough to produce results.

6. What you wear makes a huge difference.

Even though your looks aren't important, how you dress yourself IS. Trust us when we say that she'll be super impressed once she sees the amount of effort that you put into your everyday look. So don't forget to dress with style and original flair!

7. Sexy hair totally counts!

Update your hairstyle. If you don't have a clue on what to do to get the ladies swooning, consult an image consultant or tell your hairdresser that you want a "hot" or "spicy" hairstyle.

8. Turn on your sex appeal.

Giving off signs that you're super interested in your date is a major turn on. Body language is one of the easiest ways to up your dating game. So be sure to shower her in sexy but mysteriosu smirks, and we guarantee that she'll come back for more.

9. Personal hygiene is a must.

We can't stress this enough. Making an effort to groom yourself can go a long way to scoring that hot date. In fact, grooming may be a tad more important than your outfit.

10. Show off your pearly whites!

There's nothing sexier than a man with a killer smile. You can use a teeth whitener to help your pearly whites look their best. Also, remember to floss! 

11. Having clean nails is totally sexy.

Despite popular belief, manicures aren't only for women. Having clean hands is a serious turn on.

12. Attend a flirting seminar.

If you're not confident in your own flirting skills, you can either hire a coach (yes, they exist!) or go out with a friend whose flirting skills are pretty impressive. Get your flirt on!

13. Give up those corny and rude pick up lines.

Just...stop. No one wants to snag a guy who can only resort to using sarcastic, not to mention sexist lines. There's a reason why they never work.

15. Having a sense of humor doesn't hurt.

It's a known fact: Make a woman laugh and she will love you forever. Develop a more active sense of humor if you tend to be too serious, or quiet or shy.

16. No one cares about your money!

It truly doesn't matter how much money you make, whether or not you're overweight, walk with a limp or are going bald. Many wonderful women would love to have you in their lives.

17. Just be yourself.

At the end of the day, if someone is right for you, she's going to be attracted to the real you. And if not, you'll find someone who is. So just be yourself and worry about the rest later.