Dating/Being Single Support

Years in Practice

25 years +


Dallas TX 75252 - United States



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I Practice in

All areas, please inquire

I Believe

"Dating is the Dance to Love and Relationship"


“Dee The Dating Diva,” (is a title that particularly suits me). I have been married and divorced three times, received proposals of marriage many times more, and experienced every possible kind of dating experience in-between. Many of these experiences are revealed in my best selling book, Dating 101, Second, Third, Fourth Time Around.

My qualifications as “romance expert” are related in part to my life as both wife and single woman, and the fact that I have been “dating” and observing the ritual of dating for a good part of my life. Who better than that.
I founded The University of Dating to meet the needs of men and women as they re-enter the dating scene and ultimately find the romance and partner that is suited for them.
When I work with my clients my goal is that they achieve a “stunning relationship” with themselves and whatever happens after that …happens.
My life’s work as a coach and a speaker has been to help people “Become What they Want to Attract”, a journey that I have personally been working on for many years.
Thousands of men and women that have found themselves single for whatever reason were able to re-define the dating experience and the experience of being single. It’s about dating and relating to other singles and enjoying life and create a journey of fun and learning.
A client recently said “I suddenly realized . . there is no shame in being single”
The grown-up dating game has never been more interesting and challenging. There are more players than every before.
As Katie Couric said: “I Love what you say Dee, Become What you Want to Attract.”
I would love to coach you and help you transform your life to one full of passion, enthusiasm and sizzle.
As a wonderful client put it: “After 28 years of marriage, I was clueless about how to introduce myself as a newly single woman. I was afraid of the unknown and when I asked the few acquaintances I had who were divorced, I soon discovered that most of then were scared, stuck, and clueless too.”
“Not only did Dee give me hope that I really could live happily as a single woman, he gave me tons of support as I looked at all my choices and specific “How tos” as the “what if” occurred to me. I can’t thank Dee enough for the information and inspiration she gave me during a vey difficult time in my life.” –Julie Overhold, professional certified coach.

As a dancer and a coach, I 'dance' with my clients. They experience the adventure and excitement of overcoming whatever is necessary to 'Live Their Dreams.'

Dating is the Dance to Relationship and Love.

Much Love



Success Stories

Dating 101, Second, Third, Fourth Time Around

Single women

"I truly enjoyed your book 'Dating 101'. I found it to be timely, not having dated in some years and I am in a HUGE life change so this is the perfect time!!! It was also reassuring to have the reminder that...It's only a date and to just have fun!!! In my rush to reach the moon, I sometimes miss the beautiful smelling roses at my feet, friends to be made, or just the feel of the sun on my body. Your gift will be read many times over. I especially liked the quote by Nelson Mandela--Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us. Also, the layout and design is creative and catching!"more

—Charity Wilson

"Dating 101 is a delightful book filled with practical tips that are needed when one finds one’s self thrust into the single world. It treats the experience of dating with warmth, love, and discovery. Her book takes being single back into basic relating from the heart. Fear of dating dissolves as the reader connects with the real, spontaneous, and authentic part of himself or herself. Definitely this book is a must read for anyone who wants to “lighten up” and play."
—Barbara Graham, PhD, spiritual psychologist and author of Healing Sacred Wounds: Forgiving from the Heart of Compassion; Journey to Forgiveness and A Transpersonal Manual on Forgiveness


"Floundering in the single world can be difficult. I guess I thought I knew the rules of dating, until I was directed to the Diva's Dating book. The clarity, clear cut and simple suggestions simply make sense to any person who has been cast into the scary world of singles dating. I learned a lot, especially about myself! I recommend DATING 101 to any one. Try it, you will enjoy."
—Greg Oliver, President, Renaissance Leadership Services


"Dee Frazier truly is “The Dating Diva”! Her wisdom, attitude, and sense of humor in her book have helped me “lighten up” while reentering the single world after my divorce! Thanks to Dee, for the first time in my adult life, I am having so much fun dating again!"
—Laura Lewis, CCN, author of 52 Ways to Live a Long and Healthy Life


Dating can be fun!

Men newly dating

Dee's fresh and energetic approach to the  world of dating is a joy to those of us who have been intimidated by the prospect of entering what seems to be an uninviting game. Dee cuts to the chase with direct answers and advice in a way that puts her students at ease. Soon enough the realization hits: dating is fun!more

“ Your coaching really helped me come out with a fresher, more fun-loving approach to dating. I'm having lots of fun dates!"
~Art H., workshop attendee

Starting Over

Women starting over

"After twenty-eight years of marriage, I was clueless about how to introduce myself as a newly single woman. I was afraid of the unknown and when I asked the few acquaintances I had who were also divorced, I soon discovered that most of them were scared, stuck, and clueless, too! Not only did Dee give me hope that I really could live happily as a single woman, she gave me tons of support as I looked at all my choices and specific “how tos” as the “what ifs” occurred to me. I can’t thank Dee enough for the information and inspiration she gave me during a very difficult time in my life."
—Julie Overholt, professional certified coachmore


"Having  been widowed for just over a year.  I felt the need to "get back in the world" and make new friends - male and female.  Dee is a warm and enthusiastic personal coach who really cares about people.  With wit, charm, humor, and, above all, caring, her words have given me knowledge, confidence and hope". - Doris Lockhart

Coaching and Workshop testimonials

Women seeking a relationship

“ Your coaching really helped me come out with a fresher, more fun-loving approach to dating. I'm having lots of fun dates!"
~Art H., workshop attendeemore

"I thoroughly enjoyed your coaching I love being single but still want to have someone to "share the couch with on occasion" and was very validated in my thinking that it’s OK to have friends and enjoying life without getting serious unless you want to move to that level. I dated but once I got serious with someone I didn’t know how to break up with them and ended up being married twice and on my second divorce at 31 years old. I have come to realize with your help also that there is nothing wrong with just dating until I am ready to commit. thank you"
~Michelle, workshop attendee

"I learned from Dee that change is necessary to acquire what I want if I am not satisfied now."
~Adele Brautigam, Ft. Worth

" I received value on how to stay open to potential relationships and look at each new relationship with open eyes."
~Verdie Henderson

"Get out and live and not let your past change your future."
~Sunny Alaniz

"Having Dee, the Dating Diva, for our monthly guest speaker was a real treat and blessing. Dee shared inspirational stories and the "do's and don'ts" of dating whether you are single or dating your spouse!"
~Lynda Bayliss, ABWA The Colony Chapter President

"I will remember that "It's Just a Date" Thanks for your encouragement."
~Nancy Kariel

"I thought, initially, that I might not hear anything I hadn’t heard or read before, so I was skeptical at best, but willing. I know I have grown as a person. I notice a self-confidence about me and a lack of uneasiness about what to do, which, before, has kept me from meeting others. I keep smiling, no matter what, and the biggest change is that I’m making eye contact and seeing positive reactions. That sounds pretty simple to some, but for me, it’s such an improvement."
~-Susan workshop attendee

"You were masterful at coaching and giving situations we could all understand. I learned from you how to incorporate the audience. Your talk took about 30 minutes, but the interaction was so valuable and we all stayed to learn more. The greatest gift is the getting to know each other in the group. It will be more fun to attend the functions now - we lightened up, I believe. Terrific job."
~Nancy Kariel

"I have been single for 13 years and I have spent most of that time placing more value on the other person than myself. I need to say "No" when that is what I mean."
~Margie Mana

"Dee was so down to earth in her presentation and had really good basic sound advice and it made me feel very positive about putting some of those things into practice, especially flirting."
~Elizabeth Kowalski

"Dee's class was great, and I'm now enjoying the benefits! These range from helpful insights into human nature to numerous practical suggestions about successful dating. Dee also took time to give caring and thoughtful answers to specific questions asked by people who attended the class. And it was a lot of fun!"
~Tim W.

"Thank you so much for your presentation at Plano BPW! We enjoyed your presentation immensely, and I know for sure that you touched each of us in a very real way -- somewhere where we really live. Your down-to-earth and light-hearted approach to a well-lived life through the metaphor of dating resonated with each of us, and I know I'll always remember, "It's just a date -- it's not the rest of my life!" Thank you for coming!"
~Anita Gebhardt, Vice President-Elect Plano Business, Professional Women

"You are a wonderful life coach! Steve has asked 3 women out over the past couple of months. He made the decision that he didn't have enough in common with 2 of the women but has remained friends with them. The verdict is still out for the third woman. Your fee was worth every dime. Thank You."
~Cindy Barrows

"Dee’s personal stories hit the mark and made this “more real advice.” She has a dynamic attitude and it’s very contagious. "
~Taryn Calli, Accountable Business Service

"Dee has great energy and information. We had fun and got some great ideas how to attract what we want. The handout was wonderful because it gave some lines to follow and to remember to create the life we love."
~Sharon Richardson, Merck & Company

"Dee reminded me how powerful I really am and that I attract exactly what I ask for and think about in life. I really did understand how I could use the information you gave our group in a variety of situation in life."
~Debbie Hoover, Back On Track Solutions

"Wow, your talk opened my thinking to the possibilities and potential available to me. I will start living my life fully and make a conscious effort to change (I am fearless)!!!"
~Elizabeth Brown – Armstrong Office Concepts

"Dee’s point of view on several topics that I had never thought about will really help me in my business and I understand how I can use stories to get my point across. Very helpful."
~Julie Armstrong –Armstrong Office Concepts

"Dee really reaffirmed some actions I have been working. Very timely topic and I really liked the humor and excitement she has in the delivery of her message. Thank you."
~Alison Smith, Cerion

"Your dating seminar was terrific. Just remember you owe me a dance, and I love your book, I will be recommending it to my friends. And keep on the watch for me, any of your friends, looking for a nice guy, who loves to dance, loves musicals and loves to communicate, let me know."
~T. B.

"The class last night was such an insightful and thought provoking experience for me. I appreciated your insight and totally honest approach to each individual. You really listen and make some wonderful suggestions. I can hardly wait to read your book. I will order it early to allow an autographed copy for my library. I am sure this new book will be a great seller. You will be my inspiration to set boundaries and look for only the fun things to do that I personally enjoy. How Exciting and New!"

"I had a wonderful time with you yesterday! I can't wait to put into practice some of the things I learned."
~Anne K Genschaw
"Very uplifting, very energizing. Dee is positive and very passionate of others. Opened my heart."
~Daveland Norton, AAFES

"Very inspirational, given on a personal level making it easier to understand and relate to."
~Jennifer Wyse, Lockheed Martin Aeronautics

"Dee is very humorous and gives great information. Very thought provoking and inspiring."
~Laurie Waldrum, LQ Management LLC

"Great Energy and enthusiasm --a light at the end of the tunnel!!"
~Georgann Snyder, Lockheed Martin Aeronautical

"The workshop content was full, useful and practical. Benefits of the workshop were that it was easy to use and applicable to my daily life. Dee’s energy was high and her enthusiasm was spectacular!"
~Ruth Vivrett, Ameriprise

"A great benefit of your workshop was reminding me to tap into the power I have within. Thank you."
~Tina Caldwell, Quiktrip Corp.

"Dee has a great energy level, enthusiasm and wonderful information to help you get what you want."
~Daphne Woolfolk, CEC Entertainment, Inc.

"WOW, very energizing. There were so many tips that I plan to implement into my life."
~Daveland Norton, AAFES