Why Every Guy Needs To Learn The Art Of "Mind Sex"

What's sex without a little mental penetration?

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Mind sex can be very powerful in a marriage or relationship. Part of the art of sex is for a husband to get his wife to desire and want him is getting her turned on. But just how can he go about using "mind sex" to achieve this? 

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What exactly is mind sex?

When it comes to a women's mind and body, many times men forget that a woman’s body is very connected to her mind. In order for her to have an orgasm; she has to have her mind and body work together.


This is not the same for most men. Mind sex happens outside of the bedroom, and some men understand this and others do not. It is the area of seduction where a husband can use mental stimuli to seduce his wife for greater enjoyment in their sex lives. The reason that most husbands don’t seduce their wives this way is that they don’t know how to do it or that they're supposed to do it at all.

The best place for a husband to start is to go to a bookstore or online and purchase an erotic novel. These books are a view of mind sex. Erotica is sex stories that are written to seduce the mind and bring out the natural sexuality and get a woman into the mood, the storyline entices her, drives her.


So if you're looking for a good way to get her turned on and interested in lovemaking, here's a short erotic story you can read to her:

"I was sitting on the porch and the neighbor’s son came home for the weekend. He was strong, in his early twenties, with golden skin and blazing blue eyes.

He was home from college and his mom sent him over for some butter, I was home alone, my kids were at school and my husband was on another long business trip. As he walked in I noticed that his jeans were tight against his waist, showing off his tight behind and the large bulge in the front of his pants. His arms were strong but not too big, his eyes were brilliant blue, but deep and serious. His smile was white and he had two large dimples on each side of his gorgeous mouth.


When he came up to me on the porch, I felt his presence; his eagerness. Being so young and always ready to encounter new prospects at that age, I could feel his manliness. Our eyes met and I knew that he could see the longing in my face. He was not shy; he smiled and confidently asked me for some butter. I obliged, and as I walked to the refrigerator, I could feel his eyes on my round behind.

knew I had a nice ass and a slim waist, so it wasn't hard to imagine where his gaze might have fallen. But when I turned around, he was close to me; closer than I had realized. He must have sensed my willingness. Without words, he gently pushed me against the wall and leaned in toward me. His manhood rubbed against my thigh. He felt big — perhaps too big —  and it frightened me a little. He lifted my chin and looked into my eyes, his lips drawing ever closer. Now, they were only a breath away…"

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Looking for more sex stories to help her get in the mood? Be sure to visit our erotica and literotica pages.