Anxiety Issues

Years in Practice

10 years +


Calabasas CA 91302 - United States



Additional Expertise

Career Counselor, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Image Consultant, Life Coach, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Mediator, Personal Development Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, Wellness Coach

I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

"Time is precious and getting results is King so you can live a lifestyle you love rather than studying the one you don’t "

About Charly Emery

Hi! I'm Charly. In today's sea of self help coaches and authors, my clients and friends call me "Ms Fix It” for my unique ability to solve people's problems and shift their self sabotaging patterns in life & love with remarkable speed and thoroughness.   

It's simple. If you have an issue in your personal life, career, relationships or love life, I will fix it, and fast.

I have a modern and entertaining style that has attracted personal appearances on Fox LA, Fox News Boston, NBC, countless radio shows, TV pilots, and E! network's reality show, “Opening Act,” where I brought my life changing intuitive skills to television.

Time is precious, and I’m passionate about living the lifestyle you love rather than studying the one you don’t. I’m a natural because I’ve also been there. It was after using my own instincts to transform my life following trauma that I became the result-focused resource for others that I couldn't find.

I'm living proof that you can make major shifts despite major challenges, and I’m a master at "recycling" your experiences for the "goods" that pave the way to living a life you love personally and professionally. Most significantly I’m excellent at helping you achieve harmony between the two for a truly rich life experience that delivers on every level. Yes I believe you should absolutely have your cake and eat it too!

You'll notice from my books that I keep it simple and effective with a sense of humor. Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass—Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right has been called the "bible of relationships" for its clear cut strategy on how to position you for a fabulous relationship and bounce your baggage to the curb. How to Date When You're Famous was inspired by the high profile clients whose love lives I've transformed, and contains solid relationship advice for stars, rising stars and the people who date them.

Have you ever found yourself feeling frustrated or stuck? Maybe you already know what to do yet you can’t figure out why you’re not doing it???

This is precisely where I come in and help you get off that hamster wheel asap.

From dealing with divorce and reinventing any part of you and your life, to finding love over the age of 40, I've done it —and I know exactly how to help you take your life back and direct what you desire with confidence.

Even though I love my TV gigs, much of the time you’ll find me having private sessions with people just like you via phone, Skype or in person.

Visit me at www.charlyemery.com for my "Ms Fix It" video tips where you can also submit your questions for me to answer in a future video. You can also connect with me on my facebook page.  I'd love to hear from you —Cheers to the best life and love have to offer! 


Charly Emery Success Stories

Loving You First with Awareness & Accountability

Women in complicated relationships

"If you want your life to be the best it can be please keep reading. I met with Charly on the phone. She identified my conflicting behaviors, identifying how I sabotaged myself both professionally and personally. I had loved ones over the years that tried to tell me what I was doing and I did not understand what they meant until I spoke with Charly. She was able to communicate to me in a way that I finally understood what others were trying to tell for years. A light bulb went on and my life has been better for it. Since our meeting I received a raise at work and met the man of my dreams. I am now able to identify my skewed filters and am able to respond to them in a healthy, constructive way. In my relationships, I now have the tools to communicate what I need to be happy and healthy and am a better partner, friend, daughter and sister as a result.more

Charly has a way of identifying our pasts, how it affects our behaviors and thoughts and is able to provide us with her wisdom and insight to improve our present and future. She identified I had everything I needed within, I just did not know it or have the strength to acknowledge it.

Thank you Charly, for coming into my life and changing it for the better. In return, I have changed others lives for the better as well." —Rebecca in CO

From Dodging Divorce to Dancing with Love

Couples considering divorce

"Hi Charly! I'm just thinking about ya and wanted 2 check in&say hello. Everything is good with us & I'm excited to make it continue!! Thank you so much for everything you've done to help us! We talk again instead of texting and you were so right about needing to set boundaries with the kids. All in all things are great and I'm even starting the new business we talked about it. I'll keep you posted, THANK YOU AGAIN SO MUCH for everything!"more

—Karen, Los Angeles

There are so many factors that contribute to divorce today... fear, resentment and breakdowns in communication are typically at the helm building up the walls that close out love. Unlike most couple's counseling, when I work with couples I meet with each spouse separately to maximize my understanding of the core issues at work. I communicate what's happening and create a strategy for them to engage individually and as a couple. Most importantly I want to be sure that each person is fuly aware of their role in the overall results so they can make the necessary corrections and move forward with power, strength and honesty.

If you've recently gone through a divorce or find yourself affected by experiences from a previous relationship(s). "Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass—Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right" has the specific tools to help you reconcile your past and grasp the essential information about your role in your results so you transform your love life. Every step is the exact same step I took to recycle my divorce into invaluable wisdom and attract an amazing partner! The best in life and love await you ; )

From Defensive & Date-less to Engaged & Ecstatic

Women seeking a relationship

40-something *Julia came to me as a beautiful, yet emotionally defensive actress who couldn't attract a decent date let alone a serious contender for a relationship. We had (3) 1hr sessions over a period of 4 weeks during which time we traced the source of her fear, anger and defensiveness back to childhood.more

We explored her deepest interests and desires, redefined her beliefs and desires honestly, and pinpointed where and how modern day concepts of female empowerment and independence were dis-empowering her relationships. We then created a straightforward strategy to attract what she wanted as well as detect when old thoughts and fears resurfaced so they couldn't sabotage her efforts. By learning how to put herself first with awareness and accountability, she started directing her results with power.

Within three months *Julia atttracted a wonderful partner.

On December 21, 2011 —less than two years later I received this email along with a photograhp of her new engagement ring!

"engaged!! today !! thankyou for everything! I love you coach!"

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