Core Dynamics

Years in Practice

25 years +


Chicago IL 60659 - United States



Additional Expertise


I Practice in

All areas, please inquire



I Believe

"The love you seek is seeking you." ~ Deepak Chopra

About Sue De Santo

I didn’t know that when I started swing dancing after my divorce that I would eventually meet the love of my life and help others do the same. It wasn’t until I focused on finding my true joys and passion in life, was I able to create a space for my husband of 7 years.

After 20 plus years as a clinical social worker and my experience as a divorced mother, I found the real reason that so many people fail at finding love....they think they’re “ready” to be in a relationship but they aren’t. How do I know this to be true? I was one of those Singles going on 8 first dates! I did not see my own blind spots in my relationships. After these painful experiences I was determined to find out if it was possible to have a good, intimate relationship and achieve that goal. Once I understood what the hidden barriers were to my finding love, I felt more comfortable with myself and the dating world. During that journey I found out that we don’t have to give up ourselves for a relationship; we ultimately can’t; we must embrace ourselves and open our hearts to love.

I have a one-on-one Coaching Program that is a proven system, providing a roadmap to understanding these barriers and how to move through them with ease and support, so you no longer have to struggle and feel alone. 

I offer a tool box of goodies in addition to our regular sessions, such as program homework, readings, writing exercises, and energy tools including Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). We’ll select what’s best for you, and in the end, probably use them all. Coaching can be done in person or over the phone. 

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