4 Tips To Help You Succeed At This Whole 'Adulting' Thing

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Self-Care Tips For Practicing Adulting And How To Take Care Of Yourself In Adulthood
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By Unwritten

What exactly is adulting?

While you may have just put the finishing touches on your new bar cart or actually cooked dinner instead of ordering takeout, you may be able to improve with this whole “grown-up” thing. After all, adulting isn’t simply moving on from your younger years. 

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If you feel unsure of how to start adulting even better, you can use these four healthy tips to help you out.

1. Find your signature.

Adulthood brings you many responsibilities and changes. However, truly embracing adulthood also means that you learn how to be unapologetically yourself.

To grow into the best adult possible, start discovering the things that make you who you are. This may mean that you replace cheap beer with a classier signature cocktail you can make at home.

Or, maybe it means that you own that outfit that you never thought you could pull off. Regardless, it’s time to embrace your own unique aesthetic.   

Finding your signature doesn’t even have to involve material things, though. It can also include habits that you deliberately put into place.

For example, maybe you learn every person’s name in the office or commit your time to volunteering more. Finding your signature will help you stand out from the crowd and make you feel more comfortable in your own skin.

2. Plan for the future.

While we always find our first significant paycheck exciting, we sometimes forget to consider long-term responsibilities. But don’t worry — you can enjoy some of the finer things in life and still consider your future aspirations. 

If you plan to eventually start a family, you can secure your future dependents’ financial well-being (and yours) if you adopt healthy financial habits. Open a savings account and select life insurance coverage in case something goes wrong down the road.

Although there are various types of life insurance options available online, don’t lose patience. After all, part of being an adult is making responsible, informed decisions.

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3. Set realistic health goals.

As we grow and change, so do our bodies. Unfortunately, though, we rarely achieve our dream bodies and healthy nutrition without any work. Prioritize setting realistic fitness goals and embrace how adulting impacts your body. 

Although the younger you may have done just about anything to squeeze into that new bathing suit, adults realize that choices should ultimately benefit us mentally and emotionally, as well as physically.

When you follow healthy tips that impact your overall well-being, you can more easily maintain your health in the long-run.

4. Create meaningful relationships.

As humans, we always desire to connect with those around us and create meaningful relationships. And while adulting clearly isn’t the easiest thing to get the hang of, it becomes much more challenging when the loved ones surrounding you aren’t supportive of your new goals and lifestyle.  

While you shouldn’t just ditch the people who are already part of your life, consider spending more time with individuals who consciously work to build you up and support you.

A great way to do this is to put yourself in an environment that welcomes healthy behavior, like taking a weekly workout class or joining a ceramics group. Positive reinforcement can go a long way towards accomplishing your goals.

Learning to think before you act and feel more comfortable in your own skin is the essence of this little thing we call “growing up.” As you go forth into the world, remember to try these tips, and before you know it, you’ll actually be adulting!

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Unwritten is a website covering self-care, self-love, and health and wellness. For more of their self-care content, visit their site.

This article was originally published at Unwritten. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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