Why Do You Want Him So Bad, By Zodiac Sign

Beyond lust, it's a need that you feel to the core.

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So you’ve managed to get yourself up in the morning and drag yourself to work.

You find out you have a meeting, which are always so boring. As you sit in your chair waiting for it to start, in walks HIM.

That guy that you’ve had your eyes on ever since you first saw him. He’s so attractive and perfectly your type and you so badly want to be his girl.

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But why? Why is it that you’re so infatuated with him? Is it because of his looks? His winning smile? Maybe it’s his sense of humor?

Whatever the reason, all you know is that you want him. Even if other guys show up, they’re nothing compared to the one you’re after.

Through so much of our lives, we spend a lot of time either thinking about or trying to find “the one.” That one person who’s going to make us feel complete.

And when we find someone who we think is a good match for us, we WANT a relationship to happen.

The human experience is an odd one. In a world with nearly eight billion people, you just happen to find that person that you want to spend the rest of your life with.


And when you find them, you don’t want anyone else.

Not the guy in the next cubicle over, not the cute neighbor down the hall, not the guy that shows up on the corner on Tuesdays selling what’s allegedly the “next best thing.” There’s only one man you want, and you know who it is.

The odds of finding your one true love are always against you, but maybe that’s what makes finding them so much better. If it’s meant to be it’ll be, right?

The fates have a funny way of going about things, but they still can offer advice as well. So from Aries to Pisces, here’s why you want him by your zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

You want him because he challenges you. In all senses of the word, he’s your competition. But that’s what made you fall for him, and you’re going to pursue him with all the passion you can muster.


TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

For a Taurus, it’s all about being wooed, and wooed you have been. He snatched your heart with a mix of culinary skill and romance. Add that with him being well-grounded in both life and mind, and you know he’s the one you want.

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GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

Geminis, you want him because he’s a jack-of-all-trades when it comes to information. He comes with music recommendations, the newest book or what trend is popular now. Being able to have long conversations with him and tell him your craziest ideas is what you love most.

CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

A Cancer wants him because he’s comforting. You’re sensitive and insecure and all you want is for someone to hold you tight. When you’re around him, you feel happy and safe and you just want him all to yourself.


LEO (July 23 –August 22)

Leos love a man who’s ambitious and you’ve found one. Whether that be aiming to become a chain tycoon or making it to the big leagues, you love his drive and want to help him make it too. All you ask is that he still loves you the most.

VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

You may not admit it openly, but you want him because he brings you out of your shell. Working hard should be rewarded, but you’re too shy to do it yourself. That’s why he’s here, to help show you there’s more to life than just paperwork.

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LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

A Libra falls for him because he’s kind and cuddly. You want him because just like you, he’s all about keeping the peace. Also, he’s always with you, which is easily a bonus.


SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

You want him because he matches your ferocity. He’s all about doing things at full-throttle. On top of that, you always know what he’s thinking so you don’t have to worry about him keeping secrets.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

A Sagittarius wants him because he’s a free spirit. He’s always looking for the next adventure and you’re happy to join him. It also helps too that he doesn’t seem to mind your sometimes unintentionally brash nature.

CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

For Capricorns, you want him because he’s understanding. You can come off as a know-it-all, which makes you seem like a jerk, but this guy isn’t bothered by it. Instead he just genuinely smiles and nods while also staying positive to your pessimistic attitude.


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AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

As an Aquarius, you want him because he’s bold. He’s smart, but at the same time he’s not afraid to go after what he wants or what he believes is right. You know a person like that would be perfect for you.

PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

You want him because he has a good heart. You don’t have to worry about him being mean or betraying your trust. Plus, he’s always there to cheer you up when you’re down.

Jesse Oakley is a writer who writes about love, relationships and self-care.