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You want to love him, but he won’t love you back.
By Steven Hall — Written on May 22, 2019
When a guy is interested, you know.
When he's not, there are easy signs that show when he doesn't care about getting to know you.
He just wants to hook up, or he rarely find times to see you but sometimes in your life you will find men who aren’t looking for love, just like how you may find guys in your life that you may not be looking for love with.
Whatever the case is it’s important to love yourself and know that it’s usually never to do with you as a person. Sometimes you can’t put a triangle inside a rectangle. Not because either shape is worse, but just because they are different.
That being said there are some circumstances where you can improve yourself to attract the man you want. We attract people who are like us so becoming your ideal man is apart of attracting your ideal man. Speaking as a guy I like to think we are pretty simple.
If we like you we will do more things to be with you. If we don’t like you we will run away from you. If we want to hook up and nothing more that means we don’t want commitment and probably never will, or if he doesn’t talk about the future with you.
Thankfully we have zodiac signs which can help us understand more as to why a guy may not be looking for love with us, again it may not have anything to do with you as a person, it may just be him.
Although these statements aren’t 100% accurate it’s a perfect way to direct you into what reasons a guy may have for not looking for with you. These are the reasons he’s not looking for love, based on zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries may try and lead you on with a false sense of reality by being over optimistic. He could just see no future with you sadly, next.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
These guys act very bluntly, so most of the time they will tell you why they aren’t interested. You just have to accept it and move on.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis are fickle, so they could express both sides that they want commitment and sometimes they don't. Always look at their actions, their actions speak louder than words.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers usually act very boldly. So when they tell you they don't want love they mean it, it could be him just not seeing a future with you
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leo’s love human connection so it’s very hard finding a Leo that wouldn't want love. It could be the case sadly that the man just thinks their someone better that fits him.
There’s nothing wrong with you though, prove him wrong and make him regret his decision by being the best person you can be.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
As someone who focuses on the detail, Virgos love to talk about why don't want to be with you. It’s usually better to just move on when it gets to that point.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libras love to be in a relationship, but sometimes they just don't want love. It could be due to past bad experiences which leads him to build up walls.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Anger and fighting are apart of this man, he sometimes expresses passion by being angry. He may not look for love because he’s not emotionally attracted to you.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
People who are Sagittarius hate commitment, so usually, you're best out luck the first time they say no. When you find anyone who doesn't want commitment its best to just move on.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn always wants a new experience, so they hate having to commit to someone or look for love. If someone doesn't want commitment and you do it’s best to move on.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius are wrapped in emotion, they build up walls when they don't want someone. Sometimes in those situations, you need to realize it’s nothing to do with you and look for someone else.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces love to help others so they will comfort you even if they don’t want love. If he tells you “I’m not interested in a relationship”, then you have to move on.
Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture, and relationship topics.