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Just face it. He just isn't someone who likes to socialize.
By Steven Hall — Written on May 10, 2019
When you fall in love with the right guy, you hope that your friends and your boyfriend will love each other.
It never would occur to you that he's not a people person, until the day he meets your friends.
All you can think about is how good everything is going to turn out. You are really excited to introduce him to everyone.
You can't wait for everyone to see how you meet this amazing guy, and he’s everything you ever asked for.
Great shape, good attitude, and he respects you.
You see a future with him so you wait until the timing is perfect, then you invite him out to meet with your friends.
He suddenly turns cold, distant, or even rude. Why is that?
It can range from all kinds of reasons such as him being more of a loner or perhaps he prefers talking to a different type of person.
We all have people who we favor more than others and its large part due to our own personality. We like people who are like us.
To understand the man you care about and why he acts this way, we can look to astrology for some answers.
Here are the reasons why he doesn't like to be with your friends or family, based on his zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries loves to be number one in everything, so when they see someone who outshines them in a certain skill they feel threatened. Never outshine the master.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus loves relaxing and being in calm situations, so when he meets someone with high amounts of energy and volume he hates them.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis have very short attention spans so when they meet someone who talks slow or is very low energy they never fit well.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers are very emotional and can easily pick up the attitude in a room. If he meets someone cold or blunt he will see it as a threat.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
They value glory. The idea of being idolized and admired for every step they take in their life. If someone isn’t praising your man he won't like them for sure.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo's value reason, they aren't fans of people who speak through emotion so don't expect him to care about hurting other peoples feelings.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libras love to have relationships in the public eye, so any way to get attention out of people is what they will do to be happy.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Being able to work hard and having a strong determination is natural. So if they meet someone that they perceive to be lazy they won't connect well with.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
They value adventure. So if they meet people who prefer just to stay in their house then go out clubbing or to a bar then they won't be good friends.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
They value meditation. Being able to have self-control in the issues in your life affect them positively. Any sort of personal demons that crawl into their life doesn't affect them as bad as others. The foundation of getting yourself right emotionally puts them at peace.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius want radical change in the world. They feel like things need to happen fast right now, so when they meet someone who is contempt with the way things are going they hate it.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
They value creativity. The ordinary and standard are seen as a heresy to pieces. So if they meet someone dull or boring they don't want to spend time with them.
Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.