Why He Doesn't Think He Needs A Therapist, By Zodiac Sign

Men have lots of reasons why they refuse therapy. Here's why, by zodiac sign.

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It’s difficult to decide when it's appropriate to go to counseling.

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The overbearing cost and time spent means that some people become turned off from it. There are also times in peoples lives where they feel as if they don't need it, that life is pretty good and they don't have any inner demons they’re fighting with that keeps them wanting to come back to counseling.

For you, though you feel as if you're man needs counseling. Maybe he has become cold or perhaps overstressed with the burdens of his job or life. 

Whatever the case may be it’s important to know that there are outside variables that are out of your control.

No matter how many times you push him to go one way he may just reject you even harder and go the other way. However, there are cases where you potentially make him unwilling to go to counseling. 


When seeing your man cry or be emotional out of the blue for no reason it could be a sign he needs therapy.

Also things such as being negative all the time, not seeing the glass half full. Or an extreme example would be if your man thinks about killing himself. To know how best to act in this situation you can use astrology and zodiac signs to figure this out.

Bear in mind these aren't always accurate it gives you a basic direction about how to best confront this problem, and how you can possibly take your man to counsel.

These are why he won’t go to counseling, based on zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Aries tend to feel that they don't need counseling, even if they do. They want to feel as if they’re self-reliant, they won't need it at all.


TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus loves so perhaps they see consulting as a very stressful situation, having to reveal your issues to a stranger may be demanding to some people.

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Geminis have very short attention spans so they probably don’t like having to go through an hour-long talk with a stranger about their problems.

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Cancers are very emotional so talking about their feelings is their specialty.  Maybe they just don’t feel comfortable doing it around a stranger and may just want to talk to you about it.


LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Leo’s want to be respected, so maybe they feel that going to therapy is somehow beneath them. It’s important for them to know why therapy can help them and he's not any less of a man if he goes.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo's value reason, so they don’t like to talk about their emotions. Therapy won’t seem as practical to them so it’s important to preach reasons as to why they will become better with therapy.

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Libras strives to create equilibriums in their lives. So they are usually open to having some kind of counseling. If they aren't perhaps they want someone to like you to be their consoler.


SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpios desire strong passion and power. Therefore they love to do things on their own, they want to create their own path. Work to lead them into choosing the path of consulting.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

They value adventure and a quest for knowledge, they would see themselves as not having time to do therapy. Preaching about the benefits of counseling will help them lean towards it.

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

They value meditation. Being able to have self-control in the issues in your life affect them positively.  So encourage them to also take in consulting with that. With consulting they can relax their body even more.


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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Aquarius are big thinkers so they are open to possibly speaking with those ideas with someone. Maybe they don’t want a therapist, maybe they want you to talk with them.

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

They value creativity and hates the ordinary, sometimes if he doesn’t want to do consulting perhaps he found his own way to confront any issues he has.

Steven Hall is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture, and relationship topics.